Hes going to show her his organ and she’s gonna play it. Other men wont speak to another woman without their SO present.
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Definitely a date and definitely not just friends.
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Girl you honestly sound so nonchalant about it, I would be blowing up lol 
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Your husband has a girlfriend. Period.
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Get a sitter and show up, don’t bring your child to that but you need to go see the situation
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Have a couple of friends you can trust to go there and have dinner.
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Sounds pretty evident to be me:/
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That’s a date. He is a cheater. You need to leave
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I’d have shown up.
Since you can’t now, I’d contact her.
Absolutely NOT ! I’d show up looking hot as heck and sit at a table away from his sorry butt
Trust your instincts
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Why is this post on here again?
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I would just take the toddler and go have dinner at the same restaurant, get seated where he sees you and see his reaction
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The only woman your so should be concerned with, is you. If that’s not the case it’s time to go baby!!!
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Communicate to him that if the tables were turned, more than likely it wouldn’t be ok. If you feel a certain way about it, he should respect it and change it to the way you’re accepting or not at all.
That’s bullshit dump him
Give him more time to open up to you about things. Go and do your thing too.
That’s his girlfriend
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She probably doesn’t know about you. I’d say that’s a date
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Just sounds like he wants to catch up with an old mate, if i hadnt seen someone in ages id just want to concentrate on catching up and not looking after my toddler or be worried about making my misso feel like a 3rd wheel because im reminiscing on old times and not giving her adequate affection in front of another woman. Its a one off dinner.
Just chat to him the next day and ask him about it.
Some things dont need to be a drama, if hes going to cheat, he’ll find a way. But if he hasnt given you a reason to feel this way with his behaviour in the past, and you’ve got old baggage your projecting on him thats not fair, trust him and hope he enjoys a night out.
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Youre unofficial & the other girl is his official
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Follow him and watch from a distance
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That’s a date. If it weren’t he wouldn’t mind you and the baby going. Haul butt outta there
They are dating…and you are the side chick.
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Girl you take you and your baby and have dinner at the same restaurant and you do you see with your own 
…
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What the heck. That sounds weird to me. But it’s hard to say no because than u become the bad guy an only make him want to more unfortunately I would just act very hurt but let him do as he pleases. The truth always comes out. I’d do my own thing and see what comes out of it. If hes doing something wrong he’ll have guilt if u just stay quite an be upset just don’t nag him to go or flip out about it. Than he’ll use it as an excuse to do whatever he pleases. Now I’m not saying this is how a healthy relationship should go but if he’s acting this way he’s clearly not doing right an respecting you an accepting your boundaries so sometimes u have to play the game. I’d say sure babe stay out late as u want have a great time good night. Give him the fright of his life he’d be wondering wtf is going on lol
Go pop up and see what up
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Sounds like you need plans of your own at that time and place; no hiding…in plain sight. See how he likes it!
There would be zero tolerance for it with me. Lunch maybe, but a late dinner and no to you are HUGE warning signs. You need to read and understand them.
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Can you find someone to watch your little one and then go on a spy mission and see what kind of “friend” she is to him.
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It’s time to find a new husband, everything about this says affair.
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Time to exit stage left and make a grande finale of serving him divorce papers. C’est la vie
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If he told you about it she not a side chick!!! And maybe he believes your personalities won’t match and he’s just trying to avoid the uncomfortable fight with you when he gets home!! That’s My perspective and would do same thing!! Don’t assume cheating!! I’m so done with drama!!!
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I think you women needed a man’s view hahahaha
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That’s a date , wouldn’t fly with me , throw the whole dude out
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Without asking any questions this just sounds crazy to me and unacceptable.
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All of you that are so insecure with a man having dinner with a female friend are outrageous. Trust your husband, or move on. If you can’t trust your husband to have dinner with a friend male or female, you don’t belong married.
Alone time is healthy for a relationship. Friendships are healthy for a relationship. Learn to be independent or become dependent on your spouse. Pathetic.
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Okay… here’s my two cents. More like twenty-five cents, hear me out.
First of all, he’s your husband. He’s a man of one. You have an ARMY of hundreds in your corner and supporting you. As a married woman, this is what you do.
Lay low. Stay quite, plant the bait, and watch him bite. Men are sloppy and don’t get very far with their shenanigans. HE WILL TELL ON HIMSELF… they all do. You can be the calm loving wife or the tornado when he gets home. Be the calm.
But first… give him the BEST oral and add all the kinks - BEFORE he leaves for dinner. Then wait for him to slip up. I’m not going to say he’s a cheater, because I don’t know him. But, I knew a LOT of men who were.
Look into Flexi Spy (no space) and install it on his phone. Get a voice activated recorder and plant it in the car. Whatever you do… Don’t react without a plan. You got this. Please update me tomorrow.
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It was a date. And yes, his family is a secret bc to her, he’s single
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That’s a big nope for me
We are here for you…I have a shovel and 10 acres js
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Not no, but hell no.
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I would pack my stuff and leave !! They definitely have a close INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP!!! Girl go, get gone! Find someone who loves you! Please!
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I agree, I would have some friends go for you and find what really happens, aside from that goodbye!!! Go be with someone who loves you and is proud to show you off!!
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I think your bang on. Trust your intuition.
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No,sounds like a date. You deserve better
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Me too. Sounds kind of suspicious totally-
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So his friend is a her? Not surprised he wont take you then. Hes cheating…
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Oh he’ll no that’s definitely a date get rid of him
No way!! Time to move on!
He wants to have dinner with a friend without you. Doesn’t sound like an issue. He told you about it up front. If it was a secret he would have just said he was working late. Give him a little trust. If it was a man you wouldn’t be trying to go so chill hun. If he starts lying about where he is and who he is with or not coming home then you have an issue. Men keep themselves where they want to be not where you try to lock them in.
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Let him go on his date. While he is at his date pack up and high tail it out of there. leave a note saying if he wishes to date other women, single life is better for him.
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There wouldn’t be a problem if he wasn’t so shady and weird about her. Why isn’t he being open and communicating about it? My bf has girl friends but he’d never let me think there was anything there. He’d make sure to do the opposite so it can’t even be mistaken. And I’m more than welcome to talk to any of them I’d like. It’s just so sketch
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Red flag galore!! No thanks.
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Oh hell nah. Girl throw that whole man away
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Oh hell no. That’s shady af. That’s a date. I’m so sorry.
He is cheating! Get rid of him. Or keep him and be his fool.
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Ugh ya you should be pist and tell him ur leaving bc totally sounds like a date. Or sound alike he is ready to push you aside for when she is ready for him
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Get a babysitter- agree it’s too late for the baby so you found childcare so you can join too.
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No chance in hell would I let that fly.
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Most definitely cheating.
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It’s a date point plain n simple .
I’m sure you have friends you would like to reconnect with …try it 
it eaves the soul. And if I didn’t have any I dayum sure would pretend…and make plans enjoy the evening out…alone …and let him wonder … Two can play this game 
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No way. He’ll no, he’s a ass
pack his things up and leave them on the front lawns and whilst your at it change all the locks on the doors. Kick his cheating ass to the curb.
You are worth more then that
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Go to the place where they have dinner. You’ll get a clear picture.
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I would go say. Sorry I’m late
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I would of followed him
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He is cheating…she probably doesn’t know about you…he will probably have an excuse to not come home…if that happens his stuff would be out in the sidewalk
Kick that asshole to the curb! Fuck him!
There is no reason a married may should have dinner alone with another woman, unless it’s his sister, mother, or grandmother, without you. And work is no exception.
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Does she know he’s married???
Sounds like BS to me! Show up & you’ll have your answer.
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Use your gut Instinct. It always knows.
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Tell him to go and have a wonderful time. Just don’t come back.
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I’d have told him no, I’m coming along.
Not just NO, but HELL NO!
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Your gut is always right, trust it
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He wasn’t going without me! U need to get there!
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No one can be that dumb
Ummm there is more going on there then what he is telling you. If he respected you he would not go. or he would invite you because you are his wife…
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run! start now, run fast, and don’t look back 
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Bye bye divorce the pos
Sneak away to it and spy where is your mom and friends at this is what my mom did for my sis
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What the hell ! What a rude man that is so disrespectful to your marriage and.yiur family kick that man to the curb you should never be second to any woman , this makes me so angry 
This has all sorts of red flags…
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Oh I had a boyfriend many years ago say that I couldn’t go to the club with him, my brother and my best friend, the words were “You aren’t invited” I cried the whole time he was gone. Next day I questioned my brother and Yes my BF and BF had been kissing.
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I’d pack my stuff and leave while he is out to “dinner”. What an asshat.
sounds like hes moved on so i do the same
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Sounds like you need a private investigator to show you what you already see !!
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I’m sure you already know that he’s most likely cheating on you with that woman.
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it’s a date, he is cheating. just leave.
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I wouldn’t like that either. I think I would tell him to choose between his family and the vegan. If he hems and haws around, it’s over. Pack up you and the baby and go.
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Well that would be the first and last time he went to meet another woman without me! If I can’t go then we don’t have anything to talk about when he gets back!
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My husband wouldn’t go and if he did, he’d be finding another place to sleep
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Yep keep your eyes wide open
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It’s a date so find a sitter and find out where they are going to meet once he leaves to meet her then get dressed and show up and just say oh hunny I thought I’d join you guys since your such good friends and I haven’t met her.
Hi!
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Just leave, it’s a date
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Let that man cheat in peace 
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Umm that’s called date
I would invite myself and go from there.
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