Leave him. You will be much happier in the long run.
I just read 2 lines ā¦he cheated and you still with him. Really
Wow!Not touching this one.
You should have left when he cheated. You should leave him now. You have to love yourself.
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Leave it only gets worse and if he cared he d stay work it out not run to another woman
If he is running to another woman everytime you have a fight, you need to leave. It isnāt going to get better. He can not be trusted and he knows that. This is why he is treating you that way when he returns. Itās time to pack up your child and yourself and leave. Donāt look back, remove him from all your social media. He is not a Christian.
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Why are these questions 
you know what to do. Any self respecting individual wouldnāt put up with sh*t like thisā¦ unless you donāt respect yourself?
Iād be packing his bags nd chucking send his to his bit on the side like
Once a cheat always a cheat.
You your child deserves so much better
1 good parent is better than 2 parents where there is no trust. He cheated once he will do it again. A leopard never changes itās spots. Run while you can.
OPEN YOU EYES YOUNG LADY
Heās a manipulative lying pig
He is playing games with you and the other woman
You both will loose
Leave you deserve much better even being on your own is better than the way you feel now
Once a cheater always a cheater kick him to the curb you will be better off
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Get rid of that looser your waisting your time
Nopeā¦pack up and run
Run run run as fast as you can
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Do yourself and your child a huge favor let him go heās not worthy have self worth and be secure in yourself so you can raise your child with the right morals and respect your child deserves it if you let him stay your child will pick up as time goes on the traits of what he sees. Your well being and your child has to be number one priority. This guy is not a man or a father your better than that. Think of yourself and your child first, heās not worth the time or energy. Good Luck
If heās questioning you itās because heās done something not you hunny. Untill heās ready to be fully honest you will forever have this type of relationship with him.
He questions your every move because he is the dirty one.
He sounds like a massive knob head 
heās all over the place . Do yourself and son a favour and let him go
If hes a Christian, why is he living with you as a boyfriend?
Hes a joke , just wants his cake to eat it too , put down boundaries and stick to them , dont vuy into his crap
Meh! Get rid of himā¦ so many other great blokes out there that will treat you right.
Get rid of him. He wants his cake and eat it!!!
Run forest run you deserve better
Gtfo girl. It doesnāt get better, and itās already unbearable. Heās playing little boy games, not acting like a man/partner/father. You most definitely can do better than that! Dump his ass.
Donāt say you are with him for your childs sake please. He is shouting from the rooftops that he has 0 respect for you
He is a narcissist. Run sister, run!!!
Itās called projecting. Heās done wrong, so to make himself feel better, he projects on you that you have also done wrong. His world makes no sense to him if he is actually the scumbag, so therefore you must be equally scummy.
On top of that, if he cheats when there are no wedding rings, he will cheat when you get married too. I do believe some people can be one time cheaters. But his continuous going back to her proves he will keep doing it.
Dump him. He can see the kid every other weekend and 2 weeks during the summer or whatever the typical joint custody arrangement is now. Christian, walking the walk or not, isnāt even a factor here. There are plenty of Christian men who donāt cheat. Go find one of them.
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He sounds like a narcissistic posā¦ tell that clown to gtfo!
I feel like when people ask for advice on this they already know the answer. You donāt need 50 plus people to tell you what your heart and mind have already told you. He will only continue to do the same thing over and over because you allow him to do it. Get your head out of your butt and stand up for yourself you have got to have more self respect than this girl. Woman always say there are no good men any more well partially thats because woman allow men to walk all over us with no consequences for their actions. We donāt demand them to be good men anymore. Would you sit back and allow your son to treat a woman this way or if you had a daughter would you allow her to think this is how woman should be treated if the answer is no then stand up put your big girl panties on and move on have the back bone you would want your kids to have in a situation like this.
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He is no Christian man it is easy to say you are. I would say he is more of a narcissist deflecting his mistakes as yours. I would have more respect for myself and leave. That behavior is not going to change.
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Sweetie this is not a Christian man. A Christian man will not behave and/or treat you this way. You have got to walk away from this and learn to set your standards high from the beginning regardless if you are just dating. This will weed out all the bad apples. Know your worth so you wonāt have to have someone question it later. But above all, love and respect yourself and know your worth as a human being, person, girlfriend,mother, and ultimately as a phenomenal woman that you are. Much love.
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A cheater will make you feel like it you.I been there I had to get out before it my sonās would think it was ok to fight & call name 
at each other Walk Way
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RUN and never go back.
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He doesnāt trust you because he cheats. If he makes you feels as though everything is your fault and doesnāt take any responsibility for his actions, he is not the one for you.
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BYE, you should not be with someone who cheats on you, looks for her when you fight, and canāt own up to his faults instead blames you or points the finger at your faults.
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Run the other way and donāt look back
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LEAVE NOW . Donāt look back! He cheated on you for one. You need to know your worth! He doesnāt trust you because he knows what heās doing so he has it in his mind āif Iām doing it so is sheā . Doesnāt matter if yāall have a kid together staying with him is showing your son that itās ok to treat the spouse that way and to act the way he does. Get out find happiness itās not going to be easy at first but it will be worth it
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Heās not a Christian man!! Leave and wait for the one that God blesses you with. You will know him by his fruits. Galatians 5:22-23. One of those fruits are faithfulness.
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If he were a true Christian he wouldnāt be pointing fingers & judging ppl, rather he would try & lead them to the Lord. I say trust your gut. It sounds like you have your mind made up already.
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Leave ! He sounds very manipulative and you do not need a partner who runs off every time things get rough.
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Oooo girl thatās called gaslighting & manipulation and itāll destroy who you are. I was in the same boat. Married with children for 4 years to the man and let me tell you since I left Iāve been GLOWING. Iāve lost weight, gotten a better job, gotten more active, Iām so much less stressed. Itāll just get worse until yāall end up hating each other.
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I always quote a line from Lauryn Hill, āBaby girl, respect is just a minimum.ā You have to respect yourself enough to set boundaries, that donāt allow people to disrespect you or the relationships you have with them. Just because you have a son with him doesnāt mean you have to be with him. Itās not stated how old your son is, but not only does how he treats you not only demonstrate how he feels about you, but it also can demonstrate to your son how he should treat women. He doesnāt sound like he is the type of role model you should want for your son.
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Time to go! You do not deserve to be second. Be strong for yourself and your little boy. He is also learning how to treat women by your example. Good luck.
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Take your son and walk your own walk. Your son doesnāt need to grow up thinking this is what men do. It will be a bit of a strain at first but it will get a lot better. You and your son need to be happy.
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Leave and go find yourself a real man. He is most definitely not worth your time, energy, stress or tears. Good luck
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If heās questioning your every move itās because heās doing something wrong! Respect yourself and get out!!
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Itās like a pattern you better off getting away from him that just gives him an excuse to the treat is the fighting get away from
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Leave! Been there, done that. Especially if he keeps going back to someone that he cheated with!
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Thatās because heās still cheating on you! And making you look like the bad guy! Its not right for you to live like that when your doing nothing wrong and having a child involved! Leave his ass it will save you and your son a lot of pain and damage in the long run!! My ex husband did this all the time
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Once a cheater always a cheater show him you are not a full no more walk out that front door and tell him to go to hell
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Well if hes a Christian then he has God in a box that he pulls out when he needs to act self righteous. This is a common practice. This isnt a relationship with God. He calls himself a Christian because why? Does he go to church? I mean going into the garage doesnt make you are car. Saying you are a Christian doesnt make you one. He wants to control you and cheat with this other girl. Leave him and stop disrespecting yourself. And remember God loves you and there are many blessings to be had. Just not with him.
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Why are you still with him? Past time to put him to the curb. Find your self respect hun, you deserve better.
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If he cheated on you, move on. He doesnāt respect you and he doesnāt love you. Find someone you never have to question.
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Do you want to stay? Are you wanting to live through that? You said so yourself that you canāt go on like this so why do you? This man is a boyfriend those come and go itās a marriage that you fight to fix and in some cases you have to let the marriage go. Why do this to yourself, be happy!!!
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Break it off with him. If he cheated one time he will cheat again. He knows he feels guilty so he shifts the guilt
You can do better and do deserve that! If he loved you he wouldnāt even know how to get ahold of her, and the fact that heās constantly questions makes me wonder what heās doing behind your back
First of all, anyone can CLAIM Christianity. It is what you said, walk the walk, talk the talk. A true Christian man will 1) be faithful. 2) will not cast stones. 3) will treat you as though you are queen. Do not settle. This man is using Christianity to benefit himself. He is not a Christian, and once you find a true, loyal, loving Christian man you will see the difference
You really need to ask? Find a better way for yourself n child you can do it just set your mind to it
Leave its him that has the issues heās cheated on you thats why heās so parra about you ā¦get out now you deserve more
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I do not want to judge ā¦ But his actions are not that other Christian man. I think you have reevaluated your situation enough times to know that itās time to leave. Move on, go forward without him. Be a good person, do what is right, get active in a Bible believing church and God will provide for you in so many ways including providing a mate according to his will that will value and love you
you better leave him!! thatās not a christian man! he has issues!
Get out while you can. This is definately not Christain behavior
Heās not a Christian man. Going to church doesnāt make you Christian
Christians fall down tooā¦but you already know the answer to your questionā¦Why do you need confirmation from strangers?..
Heās the guilty one. Iād try counseling first if he says no then Iād leave
This is the classic behaviour of a very narcistical person. He feels guilty about cheating and questions youā¦ the problem is him not uā¦
Run like your head is on fire and your backside is catching
He is definitely cheating & accusing u. Leave him it will be healthier for u & ur son.
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Run dont walk as far away as you can
Itās simple leave. Heās messed up!
every person that goes to church is not a Christianā¦
My advise is, run and run fast. It will never change!! Save yourself the trouble now and find someone deserving of you. Respect yourself, because he sure isnāt!!
The fact he jumps between u both says it all just leave him 
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Leave before you have kids with him.
Leave him now while the getting good! Never look back!
Yes you need to leave now hes not going to stop cheating.
Move on before he knocks you up
Narcissistic jerk. He makes you feel like itās your fault that he cheats. Get out.
Leave your life will be much happier
If you need to ask the questionā¦the answer is no.
No you need too move on.
Narcissism at its finest!
You already know the answer. Leave.
Leave!
He keeps coming back and having you stick around because he knows you wonāt leave.
If you stick up for yourself and show him youāre done he has no excuse to keep coming back.
You answered your own question.
Sounds more like a Hypocrite
Guess what? You will know them by the " fruit" they bare. What does his life look like? That will tell you everything you need to know.
Leaveā¦ best thing you can do for you and your childā¦
Hi. Typically the only male commentator here. So heās cheated, then when yall have issues he cheats again. Yes even if heās just talking to her thatās cheating. Dump this loser. You donāt deserve being treated that way. He can claim to be a unicorn but that doesnāt make it so. I can assure you heās claiming Christianity for a feigned moral high ground to use against you. Do you want your son to grow up doing this sort of thing to women? He will with that as an example. Know your own self worth and find someone who will treat you with respect
Heās still cheating. Leave him. Just because you have a child together doesnāt mean you have to stay. Donāt let your child see you sacrifice your happiness by just keeping the family together. Your child will suffer too. He isnāt a Christian man if he cheats and downs everyone. Heās just a hypocrite.
Heās a narcissist. Get out now. It will only get worse. If he was a true Christian man he wouldnāt treat you this way.
What would you tell a friend in the same situation?
He is far from being a Christian from what I read on your post.
Girl please, leave that loser. Hes only doing what you let him. You donāt need him. Move on and donāt look back
Leave him and move on.
Drop his ass like a hot potato girl.
He isnāt a Christian man ā¦
Fake ass!
Leave him
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Drop him like a hot potato
Hit the door running and donāt look 
back!
grow up and get out. problem solved