You’re asking a bunch of strangers if it’s ok to be with someone over 40 years younger than you. You could be his grandfather. Let that soak in.
You’re also willing to break up with your girlfriend for this child? Do you realize how much pain you will be causing? This isnt just your & your girlfriend’s relationship you’re be destroying. It would be the mother son relationship as well as your be relationship with your be daughter.
Are you even sure he’s interested in men? Much older men? Or are you just be assuming he’ll be interested if you break up with his mom? This whole question seems very disgusting to me.
Congratulations! You’re the first to have dumbfounded me since my becoming a member of MamasUncut!!!
There is NOTHING alright with your post/question!!!
~ that’s all I have 
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Should I stay with my girlfriend or Pursue a life with my girlfriends son?
Damnnnnnn … only here to say that no advice
That is just boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed.
No. That’s selfish. If you are unhappy leave the family and find one that suits you. You would ruin your relationship with him and his mother and you and your child as well. Smh
He’s probably looking up to you as a mother figure.
Wtf did i just read?
Plenty other MEN out there if that’s what u are attracted to not your current partners son!
Eww! Get the hell away from her son! Shame on you! You should be with neither…
That is just sick. If you’re not happy leave and find someone your age and not your partner’s son.
Kim D Wenzel read this 
This has to be fake.
Am i seriously reading this right . That’s foul seriously 
Wtf!!! Sometimes I just can’t believe the questions I am seeing on here. Wow!!! Y’all please be careful with what type of person y’all are bringing around your kids. This sick af
Man you are the biggest POS. Seriously. Her own son? You probably got dropped on your head as a baby. GFY
No that’s absolutely disgusting! You even looking at your son inlaw in that way says everything about the man you are ! I wouldn’t want a man like you near any of my children he could be in his 20s but yet you could be just confusing him leave them both alone 
If this is your big question, do them all + you and your daughter the favor of not being with any of them. Wow.
This has to be a joke…if not this bloke is sick in the head
This situation almost falls under child predator …. Disgusting
This has gotta be a troll post, right? Please, someone tell me it’s a troll post 
What makes you think the son wants to be with you?
Mmm I think you need to leave them both alone
Well, i think this is beyond the level of Awkward. I would definitely be smarter and go for someone that isn’t your partners 20 year old son. And i hate to say this but your post says your in your mid 60’s, how much more of a life can you Pursue… no offense, just honesty.
Can I have some of the drugs you’re on?
Would you like it if your girlfriend and your daughter got together?
It’s completely fine if you don’t like girls anymore.
However, I think it’s best if you seperate from the situation.
If you and the son are ‘meant to be, you will in due time’.
At least give your current partner an opportunity to process the break up and move forward. You don’t need to crush her entirely as well.
This has got to be fake
no chance this is real life.
no chance this is real life.
Sounds like a groomer waiting for a child to be legal this some Woody Allen stuff, but reversed.
Jaylen Kelly logging off .
Seriously? Why would you do that to your girlfriend? Ok so you don’t like girls whatever but why would you pursue her son. Go kick rocks. You’re the type of person that ruins women from pursuing a healthy relationship with another person in the future
First of all no one in their 60s calls a female a “girl”. Also it’s extremely doubtful a 20 year old kid wants his old washed up step-dad. Whoever wrote this is mentally unstable.
This screams pedo to me. Leave the son alone and leave your girlfriend so she’ll have a chance at being happy instead of heartbroken and betrayed.
I know you ain’t the fuck serious right now bro.
If this is real, you are just a pervert! Seek professional help!
Obviously this is a joke…… right?
On Today’s Episode of “How Fked Up Is Fked Up”
You need to walk away from both of them!! How on earth do you think you could have a future with her son after what you’re contemplating doing to his mother!!?? Why would he want to start something with someone 40yrs his senior? The done will lose everyone if he got into s relationship with you. Could you do that to s 20yo?? You don’t deserve either so walk away. Now
Please leave them both. This is not ok
This is a jerry springer show ! Call dr Phil please !
Stay far away from them both.
If you pursue a relationship you have groomed that person into that. It’s grooming period. The world will hate you and hate the kid. You will destroy his life his family and everything including yours. So I’d say NO!!!
Leave both alone. You need mental help!
Sick fuck you are …
Get help you perv!
I doubt the 20 year old wants a woman in her 60s. If you got with her son who is basically your stepson, I’d accuse you of grooming him until he was legal.
What in the fuck did I just read. So much NO.
You should be with neither. I’d encourage you to seek counseling.
Go find someone your own age. Maybe a senior gay bar… You’re old enough to be his grandfather.
This is why single moms hate dating.
And that’s enough Facebook for me tonight…
You’re disgusting. If you’ve been with your girlfriend for “a while” that means you knew your step son before he was 18. You watched him grow up. Did you have those thoughts when he was a teenager? Or younger? You’re sick.
And why would you even assume he would want to pursue a life with YOU? That’s ballsy as hell to just assume he would want to be with you.
…that’s grooming and you are disgusting.
Also, you should leave your girlfriend.
I can’t deal with this post.
This is why aliens refuse to contact us -_-
You sound like a predator and should seek professional guidance.
Would you like a man in his 60s to pursue your young adult daughter?
Hell no! What makes you think it’s ok to cross boundaries with someone who would look at you as a father figure.
So wrong! Go find someone your own age or at least a grown adult.
Shame on you!
Ummmm…please tell me this isn’t for real. If you want to be with a male now then you should probably try and meet someone that isn’t your girlfriends son
OMG what a sick creep 
That’s sick,
You are old enough to be his grandma.
It will never work grow up.
This kinda grandpas are totally unhealthy around children!! Shouldn’t you be trying to be a father to him than being this? What if he isn’t gay? Such a selfish person! Had the mother to his fill and now wants the son? None your age to roll that life in your vicinity? 
Wtf, sorry but there is no way a 20yr old male wants a life with Mid60yr old. Sorry but that is wishful thinking. It’s even worse it’s the gf son, giving grooming vibes for real here.
omg sick phuck id say
What in the actual fuck
What the fuck is wrong with you. Seek help
Why would you grow feelings for her 20 yr old son? 
you shouldn’t be around him and should lock yourself in a basement for feeling that way about someone who’s young enough to be your grandchild
Um what?This makes me think,youre a creepy old man.You watched that baby(yes I said baby bc he to me,is just a baby)grow up.
Gali Velazquez is this real life
Whoever the admins r that run this page should have NEVER let this be put up and should have immediately sent this to his girlfriend so she can protect her child. This makes me fucking sick to my stomach
Leave your girlfriend and her son well alone and go figure out what you want without hurting anyone
You are a sicko and need to seek medical/mental help. Leave those poor people alone and just go ahead and commit yourself.
The admins need to contact his partner and warn her asap. This is disgusting.
Let me tell you this: you are a freaking psychopath!!! SICK
What did I just read? 
So you knew this child as a minor ? You’re a pedophile why would they even fuckin post this. Leave them both ALONE!!
Idc what lifestyle someone has , if it makes you happy - what does her son thinks or even feel about it, and yes I knew someone just like you that want to have a relationship with someone in their 20’s , only if all the people involved with this is on the same level mental and physical then go for it
That’s nasty. NO BE SINGLE
Leave the both of them alone. Leave your girlfriend and go find someone else
This has to be a troll just looking for laughs and everyone’s comments because I cant even think this is real.
Leave your girlfriend and her son. Leave them alone. Go find a nice man YOUR AGE and go experiment with him. Leave that nice lady and her nice son A L O N E.
You’re sick , you raise a child then want to pursue them you’re fucking disgusting. I don’t want to say anything against community standard but I don’t think anybody would be offended if you weren’t on this Earth anymore
This has gotta be a joooooooke 
Don’t you dare go for her son. You’d destroy their mother son relationship. And if you’re attracted to men, that’s totally ok. But breaking apart families isn’t ok. That’s so cruel.
This screamsssss “grooming” “ sex offender” “sexual predator” nothing but red flags. First and foremost this is a child that you have raised for however long with your gf (sounds like possibly years) and the fact that you thought something was going to happen between the kids and instead you both “just clicked” seriously sounds more like this child yes I said CHILD has been groomed to have some kind of connection with you other than parent and it is just wrong, wrong on so many levels for you to even feel this way. Your gf deserves better someone who will love her and love her child as they’re own and not as a lover, someone who doesn’t even consider looking at they’re child as a s/o. This screams of red flags
Is this a real question??? Pursue a life with someone else’s son who’s not your girlfriend (EX) son
Is this a joke or is he been serious? Leave them all and stay on ya own, wow 
Your sick and need help. Work on yourself, you clearly need to.
Wtf that’s crossing lines
If u don’t like girls anymore that’s on you … Don’t fuck up this kids head with that shit . He knows u were with his mom… go elsewhere to find romance. Leave the son alone. Go find someone else!!!
Omg Ali Ki. I’m done with fb today. Wtf.
Thats gross ya freak
Wow. Y’all r rude. However you love who you love. If you love you gf dearly stay with her. Going for her son would cause her heartache and resentment towards you and her son. You’d be breaking a mother and sons bond. I’m not going to say its gross cause there’s women who r 70 dating ppl who r 20 age is just a number. Truly think about it and hope you realize your gf is more important than a fling with her son. Who’s going to be there for you in the end? The son? Or the gf? The son will move on and forget you but the gf will be there for you and love you. Stay with your girlfriend. Think of how it’d affect and hurt her
Just get away from both , until you figure out just who you want to be in your Golden years and leave the sin alone
Is this Jerry springer ?
Neither… you should do neither
What episode of SVU did I just stumble upon?! Nicole Alexandra
Why would an administrator approve of this post!!!???
Jess Niblock Ashlee Joynson Hayley Joynson it’s a hard one
Are you kidding me? Do NOT pursue the son.
Fucked up just a tad!
Unfortunately this probably isn’t a joke. Even though the son is 20 I get pedo vibes. You’re 60! Probably been watching him from the get go sick mf’er
Think you need help that’s a young man and boundaries are being crossed if it’s not working out with ya gf leave don’t destroy a family