So…. What’s the results?
Wait until you are sure of what is happening before say anything… best of luck
You never tell them you THINK you could be pregnant. Always ALWAYS find for for CERTAIN first then you can tell him.
Nooo. Don’t scare him like that lol. Don’t tell someone you could possibly be pregnant. Definitely wait until your results are back if you’re positive then tell him but otherwise don’t mention it.
Surely a home pregnancy test would be quicker than taking a Facebook poll as to whether to tell him or not …
I would definitely wait until you are absolutely 
sure that you are pregnant.
stupid question make up your own mind like you should of done before worring about it now
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I say wait and tell him till you know for sure
Wait until you find out the results.
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Please let him know , asap so you two can plan the next steps it took two if you are expecting.
Your fertile mertle this is a miracle tell him
You just told everyone on FB, telling him should be easy
I would wait. No reason to tell unless u know for sure.
Results first, then honesty!
I’d wait to find out first definitely
I’d wait until you get the results
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Wait until you get your results back…
Wait until you know. No sense sending off a fire drill.
wait for the results and then try to talk with him
Following to see how her test results come back
Id wait till you know! And then use different protection going forward
Just out of the few responses i’ve read not one is really correct in my opinion.
As a male in my opinion if i was having sex with a women without protection cause she said she on protection.
I as a male would rather for her to call me and have the conversation like this.
Her: i went to the DR today for some pains cause i havent had my period.
The pain im having is from my IUD being out if place .
So i asked the DR about the % rate if being pregnant from the IUD not in proper spot.
So i am currently waiting on the results.
When i have a pos/ neg result ill let you know.
This is how it should be.
I know not everyone will agree.
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They didn’t tell you before you left? Usually they take your blood & have you pee in a cup right away and before leaving you have the results to rule out your not having a miscarriage while there? I wouldn’t say anything until you know for sure if you think there’s a chance saying something will freak him out & make him take off
Don’t scare the bloke, wait for a positive result. If you tell him now and it’s negative there’s a lot of anxiety and thought processes involved. You might also see a side of him you don’t really like before you’ve had the chance to really properly get to know each other. When you’ve got kids, another pregnancy to another woman you’ve barely been seeing is going to bring out some emotions.
Wait, get a dollar store test in the meantime.
I would definitely wait too.
When you have news, share it. You don’t have news yet.
Wait for the results first.
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If it were me and it we’re not a serious relationship I would wait til you know for sure to tell him…but only IF I was. No sense creating more stress by telling him if it turns out you aren’t .
I would wait
Since you are on birth control it could just be a bad month
Maybe after you get the results either way it go’s have a talk with him and let him know if it’s negative that you would Prefer to use condoms from now on since you have issues with your birth control and had a scare and then of course if you’re pregnant you definitely got to talk to him
Id wait then if you are pregnant just be totally honest. You have an IUD and you were told it was out of place, you got tested for pregnancy and it came back positive.
Wait until you know for sure.
Wait until you have confirmation and then tell him soon after
A pregnancy test is quick. Less than 24hrs and they’ll have results. I’d wait and see what it said and go from there.
Just wait and see no point jumping the gun
I would wait until you get the results.
Wait until it’s for sure
Only tell him if you are pregnant. No need to get him upset or excited for no reason.
Wait till you know for sure
Wait for results obviously
If he didn’t want to get you pregnant evem with your IUD, he should have worn a condom. Tell him after you get the results only if its positive and then next time be more careful. Nothing wrong with having sex with a man you trust etc.
Id wait till I knew for sure. And if you are be honest and tell him the IUD failed. No sense putting the cart before the horse as they say. Good luck and I hope it turns out they way you want.
You can go pee on a stick to ease your mind but I def wouldn’t say anything til you know for sure.
Wait for the results 100%
Wait for the results, then tell him
They didn’t just give you a pregnancy test right there?
I’d buy a pregnancy test like right now. But that’s just me. The anxiety would overcome me and I couldn’t wait myself let alone the dude.
grab a test and find out. then proceed
Um…wait for the results…
Wait for the results.
wait. why stress out 2 people if it may be negative
Don’t tell him till you find out the results. No reason to unless you are pregnant.
Wait till you have the results!
Wait for the results.
Wait til you know, cross that bridge when you get there
Be an adult and have an adult conversation with the man. Fuck what the internet has to say.
I’d wait for the results, then face them together if you are.
Any updates? Lab results? Please lol
Get your positive first or it’ll just be awkward
Maybe don’t sleep with guys you don’t know like that unprotected, that can actually help a lot 
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I’d wait till you get the test results obviously. No need for a false alarm
I wouldn’t tell him until you’re absolutely sure
I’d wait for the results. Once you have confirmed, I would let him know
2 kids and still not mature 
Present facts. Stop creating unnecessary drama.
That’s like him wondering if he should tell you about an STD. Do the right thing and don’t be an asshole. He deserves to know but after the results come back. If you’re not pregnant then move on from that.
Wait until you have the results
Id tell him be up front
I would definitely wait. He doesn’t need that extra stress for no reason if you’re not and he might freak out and pull away even if you end up being negative just bc of the scare
Wait. If it is positive there is time to tell him. Either way if it postiitve, he is either going to run or support you. I’m sure time will tell.
Take some responsibility and not make such stupid decisions with a guy who has nothing to do with you or your kids and already has two of his own as well as your self. It’s called a condom or pull out
Use it
Be an adult and tell him. Just like you were an adult to make the decision to have sex with him.
Well nothing to tell until you get Result and would only tell if it’s positive your building too much of a story in your head just wait for result simple
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I’d wait for the results and get a new kind of birth control that didn’t get me pregnant. I’d also use extra protection for sex because no birth control is 100%. I’ve got my own birth control baby. I found condoms worked best.
Wait until you have the test results. No need to freak him out if you’re not pregnant. Good Luck!!
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Handle adult situations like an adult. Don’t make a fuss until you have facts.
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Unless the results come back positive, don’t say anything. What’s the point of saying anything if it may not be positive?
Wait until you know. Why freak him out for nothing?
Wait for the results
No point in ruffling any feathers for no reason
Wait for the results of positive then tell him.
Something about the story does not sound right🤷♀️
If you don’t want kids don’t have unprotected sex ESP if YOU KNOW you have issues with an IUD!
Not until you get verification
I would wait personally!
Wish you the best of luck 
Wait til u know for sure
Def wait for a postive. Good luck
Wait til you know for sure
Ummmmm do we have a result yet?? GET YA SELF TO THE DG!
I’m all invested, now!
Following bc now I wanna know lol
Do it now! Let him shit bricks too lol
Just wait until you know
Any update?
I personally wouldn’t. It’s casual and it’ll just strain the casual relationship if it’s not certain. If it’s positive then yeah, and you explain what you basically have now on here. So many women try to trap men by the possibility of being pregnant or to gain some form of “stance” in the relationship these days that he might just assume that’s what you are doing, even if it isn’t. Not worth the fight or argument if he’s that type. I would also go take a test.
Obviously you wait for results. Unless of course you don’t want to see this man anymore. Oh and stop having unprotected sex even if you are on birth control. Your lucky that pain wasn’t an STD.
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I’d tell him like this.
Hey when we had sex my iud was not seated properly and I’ve been at the hospital having it removed because it had been very painful. Since it wasn’t in the correct position there’s a chance it was ineffective when we had sex. The hospital in running a pregnancy test just in case. I just wanted you to know.
Go from there honesty is always the best. Good luck mama keep us updated.
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I personally would wait for the results and then go from there but be honest about the pains which brought you to the doctor. The discovery that the IUD wasn’t in the right place and needed to be removed and that you’ll need to use protection moving forward (if it’s negative) to prevent pregnancy. If it’s positive, the truth doesn’t change. You were having pains, went to the doctor, discovered the IUD moved, leaving it ineffective and now you’re pregnant.
Best of luck!
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Honestly ask for a detailed discharge sheet from the ER stating that your birthcontrol was still in just inserted incorrectly or it moved and was not in the correct place and that a pregnancy test needed to be done. That way he can’t accuse you of not being on birthcontrol at all have written proof to back it AND id wait until you get the test results
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I don’t know why you have to wait for the results???. Anyway. Wait until you get the results & if they are positive, then tell him, But I don’t see anything major happening , Then what ever happens, why would you use something that has failed you before??? Find something that works for you. Hopefully for everyone, you are not pregnant
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You got pregnant already while on the IUD but then went back and got another one. Hmmmm this sounds suspect and trappy.
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Just say that your form of birth control slipped out of position and it’s actually really common with IUD implants so theres a possibility of pregnancy cause you’re late but you still have to wait for any test results to come back and then just have a discussion about what to do if you do end up being pregnant that way y’all can form a game plan and weigh out options and think things over before you have that holy crap this is happening freak out moment
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Regardless of the results it’s a conversation you both should have. He may have questions about what bc options to use going forward. Also its good to know if any more kids are an option for either of you. I would wait for results and then ask to have a sit down to discuss what’s happened and how to prevent it further. Best wishes momma.
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