Find another Man Who cares if your upset. That should bother him and if he loves you he would understand.
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Please give the man a grammar book and kick him to the curb. He degrades woman by objectifying them, don’t let him degrade you too
If you don’t trust him…then don’t be with him. Simple as that.
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I’d rather see women dance naked than men flip flopping in front of me.
Strip clubs don’t bother me, just like me going to a male stripper show would bother my husband… we both have flaws but we love and embrace those and each other. Men have a terrible way of wording things too so there’s that lol
Strip clubs are fantasy….Nothing wrong with it! Don’t be so insecure of your husband going ….guys need to look
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I’d say Go to the strip club with him, or make and to go to a male strip club
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High tail it girl, and most of all don’t marry someone that is so immature.
So if your ex made you feel this way and said and did the same things, why would you stay with this guy?
You can’t do the same things and expect a different result.
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Dump him the sooner the better. If you really and truly love and respected your partner you wouldn’t need to go to strip clubs. Love yourself and love your body. Best of luck.
Don’t cry over someone who discards your feelings.
Time to move on. He doesn’t care about your feelings. He is only interested in himself
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Yes … As he comes to watch me … And make sure I get home safe …
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The issue here isn’t what your boyfriend does or does not do. The issue here is your own low self-esteem. Instead of bitching, work on yourself.
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he didn’t say What kind of strip club, did he?!!! lol
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You deserve better, you never take treatment like that from anyone how can you love a person not capable of giving you what you need. A man wont do that baby best advice to you is Love 
yourself
Ridiculous Hell no he thinks it ok Ask him is it ok u go to male strip place SMH
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Run 
. Just Run and don’t look back. There’s better for you up ahead.
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Cant trust them not happy with what they got I had that no brainer
You call that a relationship ! ! ? ??? N O T !
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Time to dump him, you deserve better than that.
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You tell him I love you but if you love me you won’t go.If you go I am done.If the tables we’re turn and I went you didn’t I wouldn’t go because I love and wouldn’t hurt like that.If he goes I would say bye and walk away.
…things like what , crawling up the pole with her vagina muscles … things they can do better than you would be what exactly … F that
Not to mention the expensive drinks, he’s gotta be rich to go all the time
Deal breaker for sure. Don’t settle, you’re worth more.
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Strip clubs are a habit…break it to save your relationship
I cannot believe this is real. Who on God’s earth gives a shit. Seriously
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Be smart & dump this guy NOW!
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Leave him now if he has no feelings for you than get out how. Good Luck.
It’s never the strip club that’s the problem it’s the amount of money spent at the strip club. Truth
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Let him go and never have him back, he sounds high demand. Good luck mate you are not my type! C-ya bye!
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If you are not married. Why not?
My husband went to a strip club and embarrassed himself because our former babysitter was stripping!
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Love does not hurt…absence of love hurts.
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Oh let him go. Then u go to male strippers…what’s good for him is good for u. Then your sex with him will be great
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What’s the diff between that and watching porn besides it being live.
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#1 you need to work on your self esteem. #2 If he is doing things that he knows hurts you, get rid of him. That works both ways!!!
Dump him and go to counseling for your self esteem
omg. break it off.let some other girl deal with his STD’d A$$.
If he makes you feel bad, dont stay with him.
Nope ! I’m with you!
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He doesn’t care if he hurts you. Full stop. You deserve better.
Let him go find someone that loves you and respects you as much as you do.
I went to a strip club with a guy on a first date
Run as fast as you can away from him.
While tryna convince him, why not go to the strip club with him? Try and get along with him, though two wrongs don’t make right buh sometimes try and dialogue with another guy to know his reaction. If he feels bad, tell him thats what UV been feeling in a long run.
Try watching porn together and going to strip club with him u never know might spice things up
No couples do not go to strip clubs!
Cheating is cheating. I know how it feels to be cheated on.
Tell him to take a walk honey he’s no good for you he will cheat you deserve better
I agree with you!! No strip clubs.
If I am involved with a lady I will not go to a strip club
Take a girl friend to a mail strip joint the same time .both of you will come home ready to jump in the sack😊
Drop him like a hot potato!!! For your mental health, it will only get worse!
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What is good for the goose is good for the gander…
is
Go to a mans stip club. Se what he says. I dont like them either. Fake money waster
Every relationship has different boundaries.
DUMP HIM. Loves you? Pretty sick definition.
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No way I’d allow mine to go
Hell I tell mine to go, they need there fun like we need ours.
If he doesn’t want to talk. Then girl you need to walk.
If he knows it hurts you snd continues then dump him because your feelings are irrelevant to him and will continue to damage your self esteem . Your happiness and confidence should be his first priority if he really loves you. This is from someone married 51 years and never a problem with putting your mates feelings before your own.
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What exactly are they doing that you can’t? (According to him)
Leave now and don’t look back!
Doesnt say if she made him his dinner before he went lol
Any man that walks into a strip club instead of being at home looking at you. Doesn’t deserve your time or love. He would want to be loving and having you striping and grinding for him. Save the trouble and dump him. Find someone that will love you for real.
To he should look at you and stay away
Dump him, he’s not worth the pain
He doesnt care about your feelings cut him loose
No my dear ,
When he go to the strip club to watch woman, Tell him
I see you when you get home I’m going to watch the Male stripper, They look better then you,
Just get out. That type of boyfriend will mever respect a woman.
He is infantile and insensitive. He knows it bothers you and he doesn’t care. Drop him now like a hot potato. You will never be enough for him. He will always be looking. Run now in the opposite direction and find a man that wants only you.
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If it was me I would dump him. He does not value you or respect you.
It only get worse. Tell him good by.
If your boyfriend wants to frequent strip clubs, it’s time to let him go.
Everyone has different opinions. You need to just know that it’s still your life and no one else’s opinions matter but yours. Love should be enough for him to care about your opinion. Especially if it’s his children that are why you feel low self esteem about your body
BF needs to go!! You need a man who’s interested in only you. Dump him!! He doesn’t care about your feelings.
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Talk about it. Really listen to each other. Let him know if it’s a deal breaker. Then accept him as he is or walk away. Then watch how quickly he comes back wanting to work it out, or not, once he sees he can’t disrespect you his respect for you may grow. Own your life.
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If it’s bothering you , and he’s just brushing it off say goodbye to him know !!!
Let him go just remember who he is coming home to you
Strip clubs are not wholesome family entertainment. Lots of bad stuff goes on in that environment. Drugs, sex, STD’s, shootings, etc. If you feel uncomfortable don’t go but don’t bother trying to change your boyfriend. If you can’t be happy with his choices find a new boyfriend.
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He should honor your feelings…
Move on. He doesnt care about you.
Put on a g string and get u a pole show him what you got
No. Really, NO ONE should go!!
No and him not respecting the way he hurts you by going makes him a big NOPE too.
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You’re not married and obviously not on the same page. He Shouldn’t have to change because you want him to. If he wants to change himself to make you happy, he’s either a really good man, or it’s just short lived to keep you around. You cannot control him. You have to respect how he feels about things if you want him to in turn respect how you feel about things. There are women that genuinely do not care about strip clubs… They just trust their man without being insecure or insanely jealous about it. I’m.not that person either… but I also have a.man who is on the same page with me and chooses not to visit strip clubs. Nor would I stop him if that’s what he choose to do… but if it were a frequent thing I would have to.make a decision for myself, either it’s something I can live with, or it’s not and I find man that isn’t into these things that bother me and makes me jealous vs changing a man… you cannot do that… or you will both be miserable.
Dump him. Seriously…you don’t need that crap in your life.
Never cared. But then I waitresses in the coffee and hole in wall restaurant attached to.strip club and after a long shift girls just want to go home and most guys cept the perverts spend such time bullshitting with each other and the girls become back ground distractions. I think you make a big thing out of nothing. However that’s me and you have different feelings and values and your husband should honor that. Compromise really stinks to be quite honest but key to good marriage. Good luck.
There’s more fish in the sea, if that’s what he wants, let him go. Your worth more than that.
You have to have respect for your partner. Strip clubs and other women should have been part of the “get to know you” upfront conversations. It should not be an issue now. Drop him if he knows it makes you uncomfortable and doesnt care.
Wow I’d say more than half the people commenting here are terribly insecure. How bad is it that this is considered cheating but its ok for women to put up fireman’s calendars, stare at men in public they find attractive and make side comments to their friends about “what they would do if they weren’t married”. Its no different than watching a movie or something with attractive people, you don’t go have sex with the strippers.
She’d probably lose her shit if her husband scheduled a massage with a woman masseuse.
I’ve had girlfriend’s go out to stripclubs, go to bars with their friends and flirt with guys and I’ve even encouraged my girl to give her number to waiters she thought was cute when I was out to dinner with her. Your partner chooses to be with you because they like being around you, insecurities will just push them away.
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My husbands bachelor party was a golf tournament with 70 guys at our club….together 31 years and never a strip club
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It’s downright disrespectful to you period. It’s degrading to women so if he wants to throw money at naked women who “do things that you can’t”, tell him to give that money to you so you can spend it on a hot personal trainer who can do things to you that he obviously can’t. You can start feeling good about yourself, maybe even get a little “work” done by a plastic surgeon on something that bothers you (on the money that he would otherwise throw at other women). Or, say screw him all together and know your value. If he doesn’t value you for who are, and has to go look at other women, there are plenty of other men out there. I am quite sure if you had a fantasy, he wouldn’t be it and I’m sure he doesn’t fulfill all your “fantasies”. Just like these “strippers” do for your boyfriend.
I’m the same and my partner gets why in it upsets me but also says im silly because he doesn’t want anyone else but me but if he was invited by a mate he would go
Get a naughty nurses outfit and 6inch heels and have fun in your bedroom I guarantee he won’t want to go again😇
If they feel comfortable
No. I don’t think anyone should though.
They are a boring excuse for intertainment.
Tell him if he can go watch the female strippers you will go watch the male strippers while he’s gone.