I think you should be proud of the fact you have a man that will not only put his princess first but also make her his priority. I dont know about you but he seems like a stand up guy and an amazing person that you should be proud to say is yours. Between me and my partner we have 8 children, we manage a long distance relationship because of our children and I am so proud when we have to cancel our plans because one of our children need us. It’s what grown up relationships are about. I get on amazingly with his kids and ex wife and also he does with mine. As a larying note if your to selfish to realise you have a great man let him free to find somebody that will
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Wow… shame on you.
You should leave him so he could find someone better.
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“I didn’t expect anything in return” but mad because you got exactly that. Makes no sense. For sure leave him because he takes care of his daughter and go be with a guy who neglects his kids. There’s plenty of those out there lol.
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Kids take most of a parent’s time and energy. Maybe you aren’t as ready to date someone with kids as you think you are?
Seriously… he is being a father and taking care of his child. You should be proud to be dating a devoted father
Sounds like your still a child yourself. I don’t think you need to worry about dating a grown man. Adults are busy and especially those with children. And if he’s ignoring you when he’s with his child its probably because he sees how you are with her and doesnt want you around her. Maybe date someone who doesnt want kids and make sure your on birth control or theyve had a vasectomy bc you do not seem the motherly type no offense not everyone is but being jealous of a child is ridiculous. My step daugther lives with me an i see her no different than my own. Ive never once felt as her an outsider in my home and if my fella spends all day with kids an barely speaks to me its bc he is busy. I’ll get us time when they go to bed. You need to remove yourself and find someone better suited for you.
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You should date someone without kids.
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He’s bringing nothing but unhappiness to you. Move on, because now your stagnant.
You feel like you are ‘bugging him’ because you are. I don’t think you have the maturity or insight to date someone with a child. They have to come first, second and last especially at 4yrs of age. Move on. Don’t date men with children until you are a grown up and less self absorbed. No man worth his salt would put a woman above his child.
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Your clearly jealous of his relationship with his daughter…leave him alone and let him be a dad to his daughter
You’re too needy. He’s being a father. Had a kid. You’re an adult, why do you need all the attention?
“I didn’t expect anything in return, but I didn’t get a greetings card” geez. If you’re unhappy, just leave.
You are always going to be 2nd to that child. With any great parent children come first. This is the no 1 thing u must accept first…I have 2 kids and barely get a chance to txt back. U don’t sound ready to be in a relationship with someone who has a child. I think u should move on
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He is doing the right thing. Kid is first, as a parent everybody is second to your kid, if you are not ok with that he is not the man for you. He is just being a good Father… sometimes that is not easy to find in a man.
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Overthinking but not enough thinking…lol
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Kids are always first, you don’t understand it and you should find a boyfriend who can give you the energy you want.
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Maybe he’s not your boyfriend 
I think the poster is either super young or has been spoiled her whole life and used to getting attention. Not a mom yet so has no clue. He’s being a parent so if you are not happy with that then leave.
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Wowza.
YOU dont deserve this guy at alllll. A man who spends time with his children and puts them first is the best kind of man you can find! Wait until YOU have a child. you’ll understand.
And you’ll realize how stupid you sound.
You’re being very selfish.
Wow
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Sounds like to me he is being a great dad! Kids come first! Maybe do him a favor and leave so he can find someone more mature!
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Here’s some advice for you, grow up hun, anyone’s kid is first before anything can’t respect that dip out and find someone who ain’t got any 
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You are being selfish. His attention should always be on his child! You are in second place…
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You need to grow up before you try to have a relationship with any man 
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He needs to let you go because you are clearly toxic to the relationship he has with his daughter. You lack the maturity and if he continues the relationship with you, I see you becoming jealous and petty.
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He sounds like a good guy. You’re kind of being a brat…
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Ummmm when he’s with his kid he should be devoted to her, and the fact that he isn’t responding means she is getting his undivided attention and that’s the way it needs to be. You sound jealous and that’s not a good thing to be jealous about girl. I would stall it out if I were you or you’re gonna end up being the one who gets left.
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Ur the type thats never happy or satisfied it seems like…
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You need to stop dating men with children. Guessing you don’t have any children so I don’t expect you to understand but ones children should always come first ALWAYS I’m married and our children still come first. You just said when he doesn’t have his child you get attention… sounds like you’re getting caught up in the small stuff like the present or greeting card and overlooking that you actually have a decent man… he deserves a woman that can comprehend that his child will always come first.
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Kids always come first. If I were to ever split with my husband and find a guy later down the road you can bet your bottom dollar that when I have my kids they are my first priority
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I can’t even deal with the stupidity…why you on mamas uncut anyways???
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First of all, I hope this is a troll- because no one with any sense of self-worth, is going to act like this. Fathers already get bad reputations, and here you’re wanting to purposely add to it for the sake of needing attention. Gtfo. One of the most attractive things about my husband is how much he loves my son from my first marriage. If you’re this jealous of a 4 year old, if it were me, you would never be around my child because who knows what you would do out of spite and jealousy. Take the L, sis. Go find a boy not a man. Find someone without kids. If you choose to procreate, you’ll see why tf he always chose his kid over your spoiled, bitch ass.
You’re definitely overthinking this on your own selfish part. Don’t expect any person to ignore their child for a man/woman. Let them have that valuable time with his son and see him when he’s done. He’s trying to be a good dad. Let him or that will make him not want to be with you anymore
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Personally if I’d have seen this being the partner with the child I’d have ended the relationship
Id need an adult relationship where the partner understands the child comes first…
I’m sorry but its precious time with his kid and his kids precious time with him they dont get to see him all the time like other kids get to see their dad…
You will do well to think of this child first as that’s the way to your mans heart and the best thing for the child
Give it enough time work on the relationship and eventually it will be you all spending that time together.
That’s a baby girl. They are the cutest obviously. He would die for her. Didn’t you know that ?
Youre an idiot for being jealous of a 4 year old
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Sounds to me like you are jealous of his child and you need to grow up kids come first and I think you need to find someone that dont have kids cause I feel your acting child9
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Is this real? You’re jealous of a 4 year old? You should be proud to be with a man who puts his child first. Except it or move on.
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Sounds like he’s probably on a papas uncut forum asking if he should get rid of you too
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If you think you should or will ever be more important than his child…it sounds like he’s got his priorities straight and you don’t. Rather pathetic the way you are acting 
He is probably spending every moment he gets with his child and that is a good a good father. You however being jealous of a child says you need therapy 
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Have you ever thought that maybe he’s trying to spend every minute he can with his kid and doesn’t want to be bothered?
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Kids always come first. Any man that does that is a great one.
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It means he is not in to you youre just there so whatnfind someone who would value you .move on its not worth your time
Find a guy without kids. His child SHOULD come first. If you can’t handle that, you shouldn’t be with him. Also I hope you guys break up because you sounds like you would be an evil stepmother
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You need to go, being jealous of a 4 year old, what are you 12 years old? Do him a favor and go
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He only sees his kid when he can…he wants ypu to understand that his time is limited with his child and take it easy…and he sounds like if you dont understand it you wont be around much longer.
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You’re selfish and it sounds like you’re not ready to be in a relationship with a man who has a kid. Honestly he’d be better off without you and needs to find a woman who won’t get upset or jealous of him spending time with his daughter instead of you. His daughter is his number 1 priority. You’re sounding like a spoiled brat.
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Your a child and you sound like one… if I was your man and you acted like this I would be so happy if you left me, better yet I would have kicked your ass to the side already… he don’t pay attention to you when he has his daughter and your upset over that? Get outta a moms group cause you sound straight pathetic
You’re mad that he’s being a good father? You don’t deserve him. Keep it moving!
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I believe people should get treated, the way they want to get treated,in a relationship,And apparently he’s not treating u the way you wanna be treated, so just MoveOn, don’t worry about what these people are saying about you,I’m pretty sure that they have Waze they like to be treated also!
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Never take a parent away from their child. If your not mature enough to realize a child comes before a new relationship, you need to open your eyes honey. This goes for the men too.
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his kid, the kid? in 10 months you haven’t learned her name? It sounds like you are jealous of a 4-year-old little girl and you are trying to compete and come between her and her daddy that’s just wrong and sad. the fact that he is a good dad and prioritizes his time with his daughter should be a trait you admire and support. I am pleased the little one is growing up knowing that her dad loves her and is there for her many children do not have that kind of love and support. stop trying to break their bond as a mother and a grandmother nobody but nobody comes before my kids or grandkids and my husband feels exactly the same way. seems you have a lot of growing up to do .
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If you’re jealous of someone’s child that’s pitiful and you shouldn’t be in that relationship
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When you have your own children you will understand why everyone is so worked up on this post. If you want this relationship to work don’t say anything to him like you have said to us. When his child is there you need to join in on their fun. If you truly love this man you need to treat this child like you would your own child. Have fun with them. Children are our most precious gifts from God. When that child is there that’s where the focus should be. It sounds like you snagged a good one. He shouldn’t be on his phone at all when his child is home. When you become a Mother you will realize children are top priority. 
Think of all the fun things you can do as a family, and apply them. You might be surprised how fast you fall in love with that child once you open your heart. I think you will be really surprised by how much fun you will have. Do the things with her that your parents did with you. Play with her. Get your imagination back. Play house, barbies, color, bake goodies with her, pop popcorn and watch movies with them, go to the park as a family, the movies, bowling, the zoo, museums, play outside. There are so many fun things you can do as a family. If he is in love with you and you think of his child as your own he will fall deeper in love with you. Good luck. You have to get involved as a family and never bring up your jealousy, because if you do he is never going to keep you around. There are lists of fun things you can do with children on Google. 
P.S. make the holidays special! 
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Wooooooow. The whole nothing for xmas thing is understandable that your upset but otherwise whining cause he focuses on his kid is childish.
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Yeah you should leave him and go find someone that has no children and let him find a real woman that’s not jealous of a four-year-old there’s lots of ladies in this world that would like a man who would focus completely on their kids when they have them
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Way I see you’re the one with the issue not him he’s trying to be a good dad go find someone who doesn’t have a child and let someone else have this guy
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Maybe don’t date men with kids. You’re not mature enough for it.
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I thought that this was a mom page? Because clearly someone who thinks like this I pray is no mother
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im just wondering is it the fact while hes seeing his child ur bothered about him seeing the childs mum aswell thank god his child comes first in his life
Wow kids come first, stop being selfish and let him have time with his daughter. The time they have is obviously limited, ultimately they come as a package, if you can’t handle it you need to leave not put added stress on your man!
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I feel like someone wrote this just to vet people commenting tbh
Yeah, do the dude a favor and move on…you’re not a woman you’re a little girl acting jealous of a child…Grow TF up…
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His child should always be 1st you need to just be supportive it’s good he is a father
I never let the men I dated involved in my kids lives. I understand him completely. If you ain’t happy with it move on don’t put him in a position like that.
Wow ur a selfish bitch! Smh that is his CHILD and the child will ALWAYS come first!!! You’re dead ass wrong for this
Wow you’re fucking selfish. Do him a favor and leave cause you’re a child
He’s child should come first! If you don’t understand that then he needs a new girlfriend. No child should ever have to come second in any relationship.
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Lol this must be a troll post… leave him… you’re ungrateful.
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Never trust a man who DOESN’T care for his kids. The fact that he puts his daughter first should be a solid reason to continue the relationship, not end it.
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You sound insanely insecure and clingy… cant even understand why he would be contacting less during the times he has with his child??? Get over yourself wtf
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I clearly dont need to voice my opinion on how selfish and green with envy you are over a four year old. Everyone else already got it covered.
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YOU ARE NOT HIS PRIORITY. Trust me, if you are acting like this 10 months in, he is probably already contemplating ending the relationship.
His number one job in this world is to be the best father for that little one and jealousy has no place in a relationship where children are involved.
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You need to stop wasting his time and leave him.
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His child comes first
this post almost makes me want to unfollow
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You sure it’s the child? or someone else
As a parent I understand where he’s coming from. Your not selfish by any means but when he has that special time with his child it’s special and I wouldn’t want to text anyone either. It’s not you at all he just has a child who also deserves his attention. Don’t end it. See where this takes you because it sounds like he does like you! Also have you tried talking to him about it? Don’t listen to these people, they just want to put you down. Follow your heart.
His baby will always come first, and she should always come first. If you can’t appreciate that, then you should get out of that relationship. My advice, you are not ready for a relationship with someone who is a parent.
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imagine telling on yourself like that
OP get back here so we can bully you
This made me say what so many times Macklemore is taking me thrift shopping
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Childish mentality. Grow up. He has a child and he’s going to put his daughter first before anyone. If you have an issue with that, get with someone who doesn’t have any kids. Do this great father and his daughter a favor and leave. You’ll never be more important than his daughter nor will you ever come before his daughter. Props to him for doing what’s right! Shame on you for expecting most if not all the attention. Don’t blame anything on this man and his daughters relationship. Do you know how many women would love to have a man like that? You’re just being selfish af. I would never want a man who puts anything or anyone above his children. Never. Like, you’re seriously jealous of his 4 year old daughter…seriously. Let this man find a grown woman who will appreciate how great of a father and man he is to his daughter. Know your place if you’re going to get with someone who has a child(ren) because your place will never be their child’s place!
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Also the gift thing, that’s small petty crap don’t worry about that don’t fight about something so little. Fight about the big things like if he cheats and that’s just an example.
You NEED TO GROW UP! His daughter comes first. If you don’t understand that then you need to leave and he will find someone who does.
Don’t even bother…
Leave the relationship now. Jealousy over a child is never ok, And your completely entitled to feel any way you wish, But as a parent…Your child will always come first, some people can’t handle it and that’s ok. Stop wasting your time and his.
Ask yourself, Would you want ANY father to put a girlfriend over their child? The answer should be no.
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Oh boo hoo, his child comes first lol
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The child is his, you are not. The child will always take priority…as she should. Find someone you can have children with, then you’ll understand 
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Hey kid, it’s clear you’re not grown! Life lessons: you’ll always be third in this relationship! He left his ex, but not his child, its called coparenting! His ex is going to call him, junior has homework in these subjects make sure they get done, pto tonight, recitals tonight at 8, etc… if you cant except 3rd place leave… he’s a good father and I hope you don’t get pregnant by him, because it’s clear you’d bring baby momma drama, instead of being the mother to his child.
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Any good father will do what he is doing and put his child first either accept it or move on and leave
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Umm, well I’d say that him and his daughter would be way off better without you. His child should come first and that’s what you’re missing the point of.
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Ugh bye girl… a man that stays off his phone while he has a child does not need this petty drama. But yeah being jealous over someone’s child means you should not be with someone who has one.
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Are. You. 5?? I can’t even right now. Grow up and leave this poor dude, you have some serious jealousy and mentality issues lady😂
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Um ya sorry my kids come first, if you can’t understand that then wtf are you even doing with him?? You seem extremely clingy and no one likes that! I literally can not believe you’re jealous of HIS child, you ain’t ready for a relationship with someone that has a kid!
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I feel as though you are justified in wanting some kind of contact while he has his child. However, if he wanted to talk to you,he would. Children take a lot of time and attention but not to that degree. If your holding animosity against the child then just leave now. She comes first.
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Kids come first. Sorry not sorry!
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Children ALWAYS come first!!! Grow up or dont date men with kiddos. Seriously us mothers that have men that coparent well dont need your bs.
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When he has his child, his child is his main priority and top concern - not you and not everything is about you. Y’all ain’t married.
Grow up.
Obviously you need to be with someone who doesn’t have kids if you can’t handle shared attention.
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You’re clearly not ready for a relationship with children in it. 
The kid is 4 smh 
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Oh poor poor you. You found a man that cares for his kid…but let’s make it all about you hahaha. Grow up.
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People are missing the fact he didn’t give you anything, not even a card. He is not in a relationship with you…
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He isnt making time for you after 10 months? That isnt ok. So maybe he isnt ready to “really” be with you. And your not comfortable with that and I understand that.
You should talk with him and ask questions. You know, get a better understanding on how he sees the relationship. Dont be afraid to do that.
And dont be shamed by all these negative comments. Even in the new year some people cant leave negativity behind.
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Break up with him. His kid is and always will be more important than you. You should date someone who doesn’t have kids and he should date someone who understands.
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