Move on girl, that little girl is his number one priority, you should admire that he loves his child and is there for her, and isn’t an absent father. You need to find someone who doesn’t have a child, because you’re to selfish to acknowledge that children come first no matter what. If you aren’t ready to be a step mom and love his child like your own, leave. You will never understand how a child comes first until you become a parent. Until then maybe you shouldn’t be fucking around with guys with kids…
You aren’t the type of woman he needs in his life. You need to find a man that does not have any children. A man that is more in your lane as far as attention goes.
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If you cannot accept a man putting his child first you should end it. You don’t deserve him.
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I read like 4 lines and couldn’t read anymore. Grow up.
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You don’t come before the kid. It’s cute you seem to think u do
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I sure hope he ignores you while he has his kid. Grow the fuck up
Lmao his kid will always come first, especially since the two of you have only been together for 10 months. Kids are a #1 priority regardless of how you feel about it.
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You are so selfish. Being with his child is more important than you. If you need as much attention as a 4 yr old it’s time you grew up. He is the better person in this relationship. He should dump your ass asap.
You’re an asshole. Kid comes first. Either you can include the child or he’s wasting his time with you. Depending on how long you’ve been in the relationship or how it’s going it might be too soon.
Ahaha following for the comments
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Yes, here is my advice don’t date a man if you cannot understand that his child come first before you and anyone else. 
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Him and his child deserve better then you 
. I hope he leaves your ass.
You should not be so selfish. Grow up and try to be an adult about this. If you can’t- then you should leave
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Children over significant others or family. End of story.
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He should end it with you for being a childish immature self centered brat who thinks you should come before his child.
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What is with the self entitlement some women feel while dating a man with kids 
… What makes you think that youd ever be more important than his child??? Grow the f*ck up, if you’re in a functional adult relationship you shouldn’t need constant reassurance.
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You just made yourself sound like a complete moron. Kids always come first. If I was your boyfriend I would laugh in your face and tell you to leave. How stupid to even post this. It’s sickening.
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Kids come first. If you can’t handle that, then you don’t need to be with someone who has a kid.
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Do you have any kids yourself?! Props to your bf for putting his kid first like majority of parents do! Not everyone is going to drop everything to give you the attention that you desperately want. You need to learn to stop being so selfish
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You’re mad because he gives his kid all his attention when he has her? There’s nothing wrong with him… there’s something wrong with you. It’s rare a man will stay off his phone and give his child attention, don’t make it out like it’s a bad thing… let him enjoy his child. You haven’t been dating long, if you told him not to give you something for Christmas than that’s what you get 
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You definitely do t realize how difficult it can be to even send a simple text when you have a busy 4 year old, on top of that he probably wants to get the most of his time with her if he doesn’t have her full time. You got yourself a good man who obviously loves his child the way a real dad should. Maybe he wants to go slow with talking to you when the girls around, if you don’t work out it would confuse her if she sees you as part of daddy’s family. He’s doing exactly what he should and I’m sure if you show him your serious about being in his (and his daughters) life then slowly over time he will include you more in the time he spends with his daughter. It’s a delicate balance to try and achieve, I’m sure he loves you, but he loves his kid and she should come first especially until he knows wether your really gonna stick around, no single parent wants to introduce an SO into their small child’s lives until they know it’s stable enough to do so
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As a mother I would be thankful to have a man that invested more time in his kids then in me… At least the time is being spent with his CHILD… And not the whore on the corner… So I take it your not a mother your self?
Girl . It’s a good sign if he is too busy with his child to be on social media or texting people . He is spending time with his child. I think it sounds super petty and childish for you to feel ignored when he is with his kid ! You sound like a child yourself . Sorry I’m not trying to be rude I promise. It’s just… it’s his CHILD. Not like he is with his buddies or sitting alone pretending like you arnt apart of his life.
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He’s doing what he should. You are a maybe, she is a always. And that’s how it should be. I expect my husband to put our son first as he does with me. That’s what a parent does.
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leave him. He needs someone who will support his relationship with his child.
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Good for the boyfriend. You on the other hand lady… need to grow up. His kid will always come first.
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Gross. Do him a favor and leave. His child will and deserves to come first before any woman.
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Face palm about the attention part… understand about the Christmas tho
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To be honest She was there BEFORE you, Kids come first above anyone else. If you cant respect that then date someone without children 
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Do not be selfish! This man is spending time and creating memories with his daughter. As well as showing his daughter what a father is suppose to be doing with his child/children.
Be a good example for yourself, boyfriend and his daughter of how and what a women/mother should be. If you are feeling left out while he is spending time with his child: than have a talk with him. And if he allows you to share that time with his daughter; then be happy; but if he does not allow it; respect his decision. Remember that you are his girlfriend; not his wife. Do not jeopardize your relationship because he will resent you for that. Let this growing experience teach you a very valuable lesson in a relationship(s). If you love him; let him be who is suppose to be. Do not try and change someone to be who you want them to be because it will never work out. It sounds like he is a good person, responsible and a good father. Give it some time and see where it will go.
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His kid comes first girl, of course he isn’t going to be on his phone messaging and calling you. He is busy making memories and raising his son 
That’s a good quality/ attribute to have. If you had a kid with him and weren’t together would you like it if he spent all his time messaging his girlfriend buying her gifts and not your son. Maybe he couldn’t afford to get you anything and prioritised his sons happiness over yours. I’d expect every parent to do that.
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Look the kid is always going to have his attention he only sees her on the days he has her he is dividing his attention as he should
His making his memories with her like he should
If you want someone that only has his attention on you then you should look for someone with no kids
He sounds like a great guy who has his priorities right
There are only a few of them around mate I would be all for him looking at him enjoying his child
This guy sounds like a fabulous father taking time out with his kid
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You dont need to be together if him spending the time with his child bothers you. You need someone without kids…
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Definitely not ready for an adult relationship period. The amount of selfishness and lack of respect for a father blows my mind. Sounds more like you need to find yourself if you need so much attention from a man.
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Get out now and don’t lock back
They both deserve better than you!!! Move on so someone better can love the both of them!!
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Sounds like he’s got two 4 year olds to look after
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Maybe your man deserves someone who understands because you sound like the kid. Word of advice dont date men who have kids anymore.
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Oh honey… You’re a girlfriend & that is where you’re gonna stay.
My husband & I put each other first. Before any of you start take that wrong our kid’s are taken care of very well.
If he sees a future he would make sure at the end of the day your happy & going to sleep knowing what you mean to him.
I don’t see you two being a life long relationship from what you have said.
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You must be really young lol
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Leave him hun…
He deserves someone who’s mature enough to understand that children come first and for it not to be a competition…
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Youre so selfish 
gross
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Advice for your man. Leave her
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Izzy Des Forges …
Leave him!! For his sake and please dont get with anyone who has kids ever again!
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You just explained exactly why you don’t get attention because of his children, and it’s still not getting through… children come before adults.
Do you really still need an explanation?
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I dont think his disconnect is just over the child…NO CHRISTMAS GIFT NOT EVEN A CARD? hes self centered regardless of the child…I’d run
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Do him a big favor and leave him you selfish selfish woman.
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Seriously? Children come first! If a man was putting his girlfriend before his child then he doesn’t deserve the privilege of being a father.
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10 mths together and he gave you nothing for Christmas. Not cool.
I really hope that for the child’s sake her father finds a better partner and not someone who is this petty about the relationship between the two. GROW UP…
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Your bf seems to be a great dad and you’re selfish and childish… this has to be a troll post lol
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You’re trash. If you expect a man to put some hoe above his child and get mad because parenting sometimes cuts into his time to talk to you, you’re trash. The answer here is to do THEM a favor and remove yourself from the picture.
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You sound selfish. Not everything about you
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I can’t believe how harsh people are being.
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The fact you call the child “his kid” says a lot.
This guy needs to loose you FAST! He has his priorities in the correct order and his beautiful daughter will always come before some needy girl.
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Consider it this way - would you really want to be with the kind of man who would NOT put his child first?
That being said, my husband had his young kids every weekend when we were first dating and, although it slowed a bit, I never went without hearing from him and feeling secure. So there is more to consider here. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be on your boyfriend’s mind all the time (although this has a whole other set of issues) but it DOES mean you can’t be with a man with a child.
Finally, no Christmas gift is kinda janky - he just may not be ready to balance a child and a relationship. I’d probably walk away, as hard as that is to actually do. You want more, and he can’t give it to you.
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I agree with a couple of posters. If he is prioritizing and giving his daughter uninterrupted attention, then you need to move on. I’m guessing that he sees his daughter on weekend, holidays, etc. If I’m understanding this correctly, then you’re out-of-line. He gives you the intention the rest of the time and you’re disappointed, then you need to date someone single and doesn’t have or want children.
You don’t impress me as someone that is willing to share. Maybe, you haven’t matured enough to date yet?
Sit down and evaluate your needs/wants before dating anyone. This will give you the opportunity to pick a date more inline with your interests.
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Perhaps you need someone without children and someone who has no plans to have kids of their own. Especially if you need that level of attention.
You have said yourself on the days your partner doesn’t have his child you become his world. Not sure what more you could want… he sounds really decent.
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Yeah, you should leave him.
He deserves better.
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Just end it…for both you ang you bf’s sake…it looks like…you both can’t balance your feelings…your his Gf…he also needs to make an effort to involve you in his childs life…unless…he does not think that you are going to be around that long in his life …and you…for feeling jealous about his time spent with his child …that feeling will not go away…unless you both talk and settle all your issues…
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Good for him. He should be focusing on his child first and foremost. I think you should do all of you a favor and end it. You arent ready to be with someone who has a child and is a responsible parent. Its only going to drive you more crazy
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I personally think you have obsessive controlling issues.
The fact you called his 4yro daughter "his kid"speaks for itself.
You lady are very selfish and so self absorbed, you can’t even see that you have a very decent, loving guy right in front of you.
He needs to run and run fast.
His priorities are all there, but you are the problem.
Leave this man and his daughter.
His daughter should and always will come first and he shows that clearly (which is beautiful. Not many fathers do.)
Leave him and his daughter alone and just a tip for future reference. Don’t get with a man who has kids.
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My god I can’t believe this is even a post. Seriously grow up. Being a parent is a full time job and he shouldn’t need to text you all the time when his child is around. You are selfish for thinking you can take him time away from his child… Seriously you can’t expect him to drop everything to call or text. If you really loved him you would appreciate that he loves his child and that he is putting his child’s needs before his own.
I don’t think you deserve to be with someone that thinks being a parent is number 1 priority! Hope he leaves you and find someone who can appreciate him and his child!
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Get over yourself! He is doing just fine putting his kid first! So you should go ahead and leave, him and his child deserve better! 
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You’re PATHETIC n I hope he learns that soon
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I’m afraid you’re going to get ratioed on this one, dear. The child is, and should be, a priority. The fact that you’re jealous of a child speaks volumes about you. You might want to check yourself…
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You do realize this is a group of Moms right? Do you have your own kid? By the sounds of it, you do not… grow up.
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Wow… grow up. Sorry gis kid will ALWAYS come before you
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As a parent, your child WILL ALWAYS come first. Ask yourself this, if the roles were reversed, how would you feel if he wanted to end it because you paid attention to your own child? No one should put a boyfriend or girlfriend over their own child. What kind of example is that setting?
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I’m not being mean so please don’t take it as I am but from what I just read it seems like you need to date a man who doesn’t have children.
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He is doing what he should be doing…putting his child first!!
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Lol. U are meant to come 2nd. How dare u expect to come 1st He doesnt even have her fulltime. Let them breathe and let them be!!+
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His kid comes first! Come on now get over yourself and grow up! You sound childish as fuck and selfish. He deserves better then you!
Take a step back and realize that is his child; You’re not going to be center of attention. Acknowledge and understand that or do yourselves a favor and end things…
Now if you have reason to believe he’s messing around and not always with his child… Move on. Not worth the stress!
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Kids will always come first I respect your partner for actually putting 100% into his kid while he has him… if you can’t handle him loving his kid and wanting to spend all the time he has focusing on his kid you should leave him. You sound extremely selfish. His kid came first, his kid is his creation let him have a good bond…
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His kid before you is honestly the best a man can do bc not many are willing to be in there kids lives !
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Well this post actually made me angry & wanted to throw my phone across the room … Maybe you should take a step back & let him be a father to his child, I’d hate to see how you would be if you every had kids with him
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Sounds like h needs to end things with his girlfriend. That would fix a lot of his issues and he probably doesn’t even know it yet…
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Why is this even a post? Wtf. Petty ass little girl thinking she should come before his child.
Children are more important than partners. Sorry but that’s just the way it is. My 2 girls dad doesn’t bother with them and hasn’t for 9 years now. This guy sounds like a dad who dedicates his time to his child which is so hard to come by these days. I think you need to deal with it or move on
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Wow but they are right…Move on and enjoy life with someone that is single like yourself
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Even 2007 Brittney judges you 🤦
You sound like a spoiled bitch. Grow up
Do i want my daughters father to put his daughter first instead of his girlfriend yes but unfortunately his girlfriend will always come before his daughter. Grow the fuck up let him have his time with his child you got with him knowing he had a child so if you cant handle the fact he is enjoying spending time with his daughter and not texting or ringing you then do him the hugest favour and end it give another woman the chance to have a decent man that takes his priorities serious
Oh girl you do not deserve this man. He is being a father and I’m sorry but that comes before any girlfriend…most WOMEN appreciate a man who is a present father…you on the other hand seem like a GIRL who would be pushing his daughter out of his life…so I’ll say it for ur man…Bitch byeeeeeee
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If you had a child you’d ignore it to text your boyfriend??
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Children always come first. If you cant handle, or understand that, dont be with a man that has a child.
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Sounds like you’ve got a man-man girl. The fact that hes devoting his time and attention to his child gives him props big time. Wouldn’t you want that for your own babes? Their dad putting them first? That’s a huge sign of character. Give him his time with his babe n understand that child deserves to come first above all.
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Please do him a favor and leave him. He already has a kid. He doesn’t need a “woman” that acts like one too!
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Wow! Go Dad! On the Dad’s part he’s doing everything right! The only thing I disagree with is he should’ve at least gotten you a gift or a Christmas card, although sometimes guys don’t think of things like that, but I can understand being disappointed about the gift, but don’t be upset or jealous that he’s not getting back with you when he’s spending time with his baby girl. What a good daddy! It sounds like he treats you well when he doesn’t have his little girl, and what I gather you and his daughter haven’t met yet from the sound of it?
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Theres nothing wrong w him spending time w his child. Giving the child his full attention. Maybe he senses some sort of feeling from you, and would rather not deal with it. When hes ready, he’ll bring the two of you together. It’s good hes not bringing random girlfriends around his kid. When the time is right itll all work itself out. Leaving someone because you feel left out or ignored due to a kid, a job, or anything else is selfish. Have you even brought up your thoughts to him?
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Wow poor you. You must feel horrible he had a child before he met you and takes care of her. You need to leave him before you try to mess his relationship up with his child.
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This must be a post from a very young girl.
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i hope he leaves you
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Go dad!! More dad’s should be like this!
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I would never I mean NEEEEVER expect to come before a child bc I know I would NEVER put anyone before my children!!
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Good for him! Children always come first!! Grow up or move on
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Would you rather be with a dead beat that spends no time with his child? Grow up sweet heart. His child is his priority. You are secondary and that is how it should be. Maybe you should talk to him about the two of you doing things with his daughter together. But then again maybe you blowing him up while he’s trying to focus on his child is the reason he hasn’t suggested such a thing. I’d move on you aren’t mature enough to handle that kind of relationship. Just know that one day it will happen to you and you will realize how crappy it is.
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Im sorry, but either understand that his kid comes before you, or move on. If he only has his kid every now and then instead of all of the time, give him that time to spend with his child. I have two and sometimes my husband and i go days without speaking unless it concerns the kids. Not because we’re having problems, but because our kids and his job takes up most of our time.
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