You called him a name first then he called you a name what are you some kind of
Special princess you can call him names but when he call you one it hurts the princess feelings!
Grow up and act like adults!!
Entitled much? If you canāt take it, donāt dish it out
You sound ridiculous if you are looking for truth in this matter. Didnāt you call him āa miserable old fartā? Donāt dish out if you canāt take whatās thrown back you.
Wait you called him a name and he called you one back and you cried? Thatās extremely manipulative. How about if youāre not secure enough in your marriage then you work on yourself in therapy to figure out why you think itās okay to degrade your spouse but it isnāt okay for him to do it back.
You took it literally to how he meant it.yes I see why youād be upset looking at it from a grown up perspective but you have gone to deep into thought and now your mind is going old hag old lady old fart is what you preferred him to say nice and light but no you got old bike .dont start the talk if you donāt want the response.your intentions were to offend him but you ended up offended
This is ridiculous. So u call him a āmiserable old fartā and then got butthurt when he throws the same kind of jab back? Did u not consider you may have hurt his feelings? He didnāt coddle u because why should he? Donāt dish it if u canāt take it. I seriously hope youāre not acting mad or moping around him over it either. Let it go.
āI insulted my partner and he insulted me back, Iām so hurt what do I doā maybe not dish it out if you canāt take it
It was just a form of endearment.
You being an entitled immature baby cry. You can dish it out but canāt take it back? Go back to kindergarten with that bs you donāt belong in a marriage
I thought this was for people with real problems not boo hooing
Prob just had to come up with something quick to answer you and didnāt really think about what he said till later x
I cant begin on how to answer thisā¦ I EXPECTED U TO WRITE HE CALLED U ALL THE SWEAR NAMESā¦ AND HE NEVER USED TOā¦ UR COMMENT IS MORE OFFENSIVE THAN HIS at end of the day dont say anything to anyone mean if u cant also take it. And hat off to ur manā¦ happy anniversary
You admitted that it was ājokinglyā but you were offended by his comment.
Did you not consider how your joking comment made him feel?
Welp time to find a lawyer then!! lord if thatās the worst heās ever called you then you have a shit marriage. SMH LOL
He called you a bike? Like a bicycle?
OMGOSH!!! Donāt dish it out if you canāt take it!!!
R u pregnant is this y ur hormones are acting up?
If you canāt take it, donāt dish it. Its not like he called you a b!tch
Donāt dish it out if you canāt take it!
Get your hormones check. You gotta be pregnant lol. You literally started itā¦and he just joked backā¦
Laugh and move on lady
Apparently, you hurt his feelings first. Watch your mouth and perhaps he will also
You jokingly called him something and when he did it back itās a problem? Donāt dish it out if you canāt take it yourself. This is seriously so stupid, maybe you hurt his feelings and when he saw you didnāt care at all he clapped back. Grow up and stop playing victim when you literally started it.
So you can talk shit ājokinglyā but he canāt?
That, ladies and gentlemen is called HYPOCRISY and also is a double standard.
Maybe donāt start a ājoking aroundā conversation if your skin is so thin you can dish it but canāt take it.
He was joking just like u wereā¦ U were being too sensitive.
Smh. āI donāt understand where that comment came from or whyā
You called him miserable old fart. Does this guy usually just take your sh*t? Iām assuming you are a adult, and should know the whole ātreat others as you want to be treatedāā¦. Maybe he is ātoo tiredā of you overreacting? You say you are hurt and upset, before called him a name, (and after) did you think of how he felt? Step off that pedestal hun. Start treating him equally or deal with it.
Wow you called him miserable old fart Come on nowš¤¦š»āāļø
so I read this like whatās the problem?!? Donāt dish what you cannot take. BUT then I educated myself on the term āold bikeā and wowā¦ I understand it wasnāt nice to call you an old whore but was it really nice to call him an old fart?
You asked for it when you started it lolā¦ honestlyš
You called him a name and he called you oneā¦ I donāt see the issue with what he said considering you said something first.
This happens to me all the time
Itās all fun and games roasting eachother until someone gets their feelings hurt but at the end of the day, it was a joke.
Iāve gotten more sensitive the older I get and get butthurt more easily but the saying goes ādonāt dish it if you canāt take itā
Did you not call him a miserable old fart as a joke? Iām not sure what youāre upset about but seeking validation tells me thereās more than a joke thatās upsetting youā¦
Ever stop to think that you hurt his feeling first ā¦you think that you can say / call him anything you want and he has to take it ā¦donāt dish it out if you canāt take it
Thatās all he called you? The roasting game is a two way street. The one that made me laugh the hardest that he called me was a ācock-gobbling thundercntā You need thicker skin. One time, my boyfriend and I were shopping for clothes for me, and he mentioned that he would bite my ass in them. Loudly. To which I retorted, āYouāre my brother! Thatās disgusting!ā Equally loudly, too. I won.
Donāt dish it if you canāt take it.
Basically calling you a s**t is a lot more harsh than what you called him but as people have said you started it with your comment. I donāt think itās just the comment thatās hurt you, you need to really think about it and get to the core of the problem.
Donāt dish it out if you canāt handle it back
You may have hurt him with your words, so a starting point would be to apologize and discuss the harsh words you both spoke. This is the time to make amends.
Please excuse my lack of knowledge with certain terms but just what is an old bike?
Not how you thought this was gonna go huhā¦.? Lol
Ummm so you can give it but canāt take it yeah youāre the problem here.
Wow. You sound like a child, donāt dish it if you canāt take it. Seriously tears? Gtfoh
You insulted him and he retaliated. If you donāt like insults, donāt use them. Itās not that hard to understand.
You called him an old fart, he called you an old bike, now things feel different. He couldāve called you alot worse
Show him that old bike still pedals fast and stfu
Why would you call him something so mean, & expect him not to do the same? It goes both ways, donāt start something and expect to not get backlash.
Sticks and stones may break my bones
but words will ALWAYS hurt me.
Iām sorry this happened, but you did it first - he reacted, which is only normal.
Youād be wise to apologies and very let words fly out of your mouth; as youāve learned, they are painful.
You called him a miserable old fart why was that ok but it wasnāt ok for him to take a shot back at you
You called him an old fart first. So what he said to you isnāt anything different than what you said to him. Fairs, fair
Just tell him you are sorry and how bad your feelings were hurt! Then have some wild makeup time! Put this miner crap in perspective and move on. Go right now and call him your preious angle and see if he can match your complyment! Overcome bad with good ,regardless of what you think men do have feelings!
Eaaahh he called me a name after i called him a name!!! I wanna be a princess and no one can call me names waah!!
This is literally what you sound like
Seems like he was called: miserable, old, and a fart. Please donāt dish it out if you canāt take it.
I would say it was a tongue in cheek response to your āold fartā comment to him
Lol
In Australia we would find that humorous and would possibly have a better come back thatās equally funny
Treat ppl the way you want to be treated. U started it. He ended it
Now that you have said ugly things to each other schedule a date night and reminisce about when you fell in love.
If stuff like this bothers you then donāt do it to him.
He was responding to you. He either got hurt and retaliated or figured āif sheās playing around, I can play tooā and was just joking (which is what you did to him).
Donāt start something if you canāt take the same in return
Why are people laughing at this post? ā¦ It isnāt funny ā¦ What she said had no intended maliceā¦ like calling somebody Silly Billyā¦ Whar he said hurt hurt to the Coreā¦ I take his comment to me that she is an old ho that everyone has had a turn on ā¦ He sounds like a mean jackass ā¦ And he didnāt care when she started to cry ā¦
That doesnāt even make sense you can joke & call him names but he canāt joke & call you names!? Get over yourself lady
Maybe heās wondering why you called him an old fart?
No insult is a good insult, even meant to be funny.
Lol you get what you get
Get over it u said something and he said something back grow up he was teasing
Spice things up for him in the bedroom and show him that your old bike stills races
You name called and he went one further and offended you, itās not something to make a Facebook post over.
You canāt expect to call someone a name and not get the same thing in return.
What is an old ābikeā? Iāve never heard of that before & def not in a derogatory wayā¦
Wat did u expect you called him a miserable old fart now Ur affended that he called u an old bike wether Ur joking or not why would u do that on Ur anniversary u brought it on urself
If you canāt take a come back you shouldnāt have started it. Do you think you might have hurt his feelings too. Say your sorry and move on, cause if you donāt its gonna escalade and who knows where it goes from there.
How are u going to be upset when he call u a name when ur the one who insulted him first??? That makes no sense u thought u were being funny so he probably thought he was being to get over ur self honestly if u canāt take a joke or insult when u give one then donāt insult someone
You said something first.Seems like you should not dish it out if you canāt take itā¦
How are People saying thatās ok. She called him an old fart and heās basically called her a slag!!
You said a snazzy comment first. Get over it.
Wow. I canāt believe these comments. Heās called his wife a slut. A tad different to an old fart.
WTF!!! Are you being serious right now or is this some kind of joke. If you donāt like getting called names you shouldnāt do it either
What are you expecting from a miserable old fart?!? In all seriousness I think youāre being over sensitive and overthinking. Take it from a sensitive overthinker. You jabbed him and he jabbed back.
You literally started it
Soā¦umā¦.what does an āold bikeā mean?
Anything said that hurts on any level isnāt funny.
really grow up you jokingly called him an old fart and he replied back with old bike which donāt know what that means but you canāt expect to be able to call someone a name and him not call you one back. did you think maybe you could have hurt his feelings by saying old fart? Bet you didnāt think about his feelings only yours.You must be offended very easy by ppl.
Did you ever consider maybe you hurt his feelings when calling him an old fart. When ditching out your going to get it back.
ā¦is this real? You raggin or goin through menopause?
Like i tell my kids. Donāt start shit if youāre just gonna cry
He probably thought you were teasing him, so he did it back.
What did you expect him to say??
You called him an old fart. Not a nice thing to call a hard working man. You need to give your man more compliments.
Donāt give out what you canāt take
You like to dish it out but canāt get it back. Did you think you might have hurt your husband feelings with what you called him. Stop acting like a hurt princess when you started it. Good on him for giving it back to you
If ya canāt take it, donāt dish it, simple!
Is this a joke? This sounds like a joke. You literally initiated a name-calling sesh and now your upset about it and worried? Iām so confused. Are you looking for things to get upset over. ?
Well, you were rude calling him a Miserable Old Fart. He may have been tired too as you mentioned.
Butā¦do you ever show your appreciation to him?
On the bright sideā¦at least he didnāt call you a Miserable old bikeā¦
Some seriously dumb People on here. And very worrying that many are saying itās ok he called her an old whore/slag for her calling him miserable/moody.
I hope none of you have daughters and would allow a man to speak to her like that. Although youāre probably the types that are in relationships where stuff like that is ok and thatās even more worrying
Theae girls are so fucking stupid like wtf.
Whatās an old bike?
Iāve been called worse by mineš
Donāt give out what you canāt take and you clearly need to get sense of humour
Not sure what an āold bikeā is but Iām sure he didnāt appreciate being called miserable either
If you wanted a compliment you should have complimented him. You chose to sling shit and he did the same, he has feelings too. Did you think about if your statement hurt his feelings?
Ok. Old bike =slag. Please tell us what a slag is to help us understand
your problem is self made there for it needs self fixing
What if he called you an old fart. Name calling is not nice for either partner.
Is there a way to screen some of these posts??
Then why did you start it?. Words do hurt. Maybe you both should slow down and smell the Roseās. Learn to live with less. Just my opinion!
You called him names first
Also Iāve never heard the term āold bikeā but it made me giggle a little