Things feel different

You called him a name first then he called you a name what are you some kind of
Special princess you can call him names but when he call you one it hurts the princess feelings!
Grow up and act like adults!!

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Entitled much? If you canā€™t take it, donā€™t dish it out :woman_shrugging:

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You sound ridiculous if you are looking for truth in this matter. Didnā€™t you call him ā€œa miserable old fartā€? Donā€™t dish out if you canā€™t take whatā€™s thrown back you.

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Wait you called him a name and he called you one back and you cried? Thatā€™s extremely manipulative. How about if youā€™re not secure enough in your marriage then you work on yourself in therapy to figure out why you think itā€™s okay to degrade your spouse but it isnā€™t okay for him to do it back.

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You took it literally to how he meant it.yes I see why youā€™d be upset looking at it from a grown up perspective but you have gone to deep into thought and now your mind is going :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: old hag old lady old fart is what you preferred him to say nice and light but no you got old bike .dont start the talk if you donā€™t want the response.your intentions were to offend him but you ended up offended :joy:

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This is ridiculous. So u call him a ā€œmiserable old fartā€ and then got butthurt when he throws the same kind of jab back? Did u not consider you may have hurt his feelings? He didnā€™t coddle u because why should he? Donā€™t dish it if u canā€™t take it. I seriously hope youā€™re not acting mad or moping around him over it either. Let it go.

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ā€œI insulted my partner and he insulted me back, Iā€™m so hurt what do I doā€ maybe not dish it out if you canā€™t take it

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It was just a form of endearment.

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You being an entitled immature baby cry. You can dish it out but canā€™t take it back? Go back to kindergarten with that bs you donā€™t belong in a marriage

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I thought this was for people with real problems not boo hooing

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Prob just had to come up with something quick to answer you and didnā€™t really think about what he said till later x

I cant begin on how to answer thisā€¦ I EXPECTED U TO WRITE HE CALLED U ALL THE SWEAR NAMESā€¦ AND HE NEVER USED TOā€¦ UR COMMENT IS MORE OFFENSIVE THAN HIS at end of the day dont say anything to anyone mean if u cant also take it. And hat off to ur manā€¦ happy anniversary

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You admitted that it was ā€˜jokinglyā€™ but you were offended by his comment.:thinking:
Did you not consider how your joking comment made him feel?

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:woman_facepalming:t3:Welp time to find a lawyer then!!:rofl::rofl: lord if thatā€™s the worst heā€™s ever called you then you have a shit marriage. SMH LOL

He called you a bike? Like a bicycle?

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OMGOSH!!! Donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t take it!!!

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R u pregnant is this y ur hormones are acting up? :joy:

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If you canā€™t take it, donā€™t dish it. Its not like he called you a b!tch

Donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t take it! :joy::woman_shrugging:t3:

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Get your hormones check. You gotta be pregnant lol. You literally started itā€¦and he just joked backā€¦

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Laugh and move on lady

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Apparently, you hurt his feelings first. Watch your mouth and perhaps he will also

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You jokingly called him something and when he did it back itā€™s a problem? Donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t take it yourself. This is seriously so stupid, maybe you hurt his feelings and when he saw you didnā€™t care at all he clapped back. Grow up and stop playing victim when you literally started it.:woman_facepalming:

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So you can talk shit ā€œjokinglyā€ but he canā€™t?
That, ladies and gentlemen is called HYPOCRISY and also is a double standard.
Maybe donā€™t start a ā€œjoking aroundā€ conversation if your skin is so thin you can dish it but canā€™t take it.

He was joking just like u wereā€¦ U were being too sensitive.

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Smh. ā€œI donā€™t understand where that comment came from or whyā€
You called him miserable old fart. Does this guy usually just take your sh*t? Iā€™m assuming you are a adult, and should know the whole ā€œtreat others as you want to be treatedā€ā€¦. Maybe he is ā€œtoo tiredā€ of you overreacting? You say you are hurt and upset, before called him a name, (and after) did you think of how he felt? Step off that pedestal hun. Start treating him equally or deal with it.

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Wow you called him miserable old fart Come on nowšŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

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:rofl::rofl::rofl: so I read this like whatā€™s the problem?!? Donā€™t dish what you cannot take. BUT then I educated myself on the term ā€œold bikeā€ and wowā€¦ I understand it wasnā€™t nice to call you an old whore but was it really nice to call him an old fart?

You asked for it when you started it lolā€¦ honestlyšŸ˜‚

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You called him a name and he called you oneā€¦ I donā€™t see the issue with what he said considering you said something first.

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This happens to me all the time :rofl:
Itā€™s all fun and games roasting eachother until someone gets their feelings hurt but at the end of the day, it was a joke.
Iā€™ve gotten more sensitive the older I get and get butthurt more easily but the saying goes ā€œdonā€™t dish it if you canā€™t take itā€

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Did you not call him a miserable old fart as a joke? Iā€™m not sure what youā€™re upset about but seeking validation tells me thereā€™s more than a joke thatā€™s upsetting youā€¦

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Ever stop to think that you hurt his feeling first ā€¦you think that you can say / call him anything you want and he has to take it ā€¦donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t take it

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Thatā€™s all he called you? The roasting game is a two way street. The one that made me laugh the hardest that he called me was a ā€˜cock-gobbling thundercntā€™ You need thicker skin. One time, my boyfriend and I were shopping for clothes for me, and he mentioned that he would bite my ass in them. Loudly. To which I retorted, ā€œYouā€™re my brother! Thatā€™s disgusting!ā€ Equally loudly, too. I won.

Donā€™t dish it if you canā€™t take it.

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Basically calling you a s**t is a lot more harsh than what you called him but as people have said you started it with your comment. I donā€™t think itā€™s just the comment thatā€™s hurt you, you need to really think about it and get to the core of the problem.

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Donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t handle it back

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You may have hurt him with your words, so a starting point would be to apologize and discuss the harsh words you both spoke. This is the time to make amends.

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Please excuse my lack of knowledge with certain terms but just what is an old bike?

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Not how you thought this was gonna go huhā€¦.? Lol

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Ummm so you can give it but canā€™t take it :sweat_smile: yeah youā€™re the problem here.

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Wow. You sound like a child, donā€™t dish it if you canā€™t take it. Seriously tears? Gtfoh

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You insulted him and he retaliated. If you donā€™t like insults, donā€™t use them. Itā€™s not that hard to understand.

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You called him an old fart, he called you an old bike, now things feel different. He couldā€™ve called you alot worse
Show him that old bike still pedals fast and stfu :laughing::laughing::confused:

Why would you call him something so mean, & expect him not to do the same? It goes both ways, donā€™t start something and expect to not get backlash.

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Sticks and stones may break my bones
but words will ALWAYS hurt me.
Iā€™m sorry this happened, but you did it first - he reacted, which is only normal.
Youā€™d be wise to apologies and very let words fly out of your mouth; as youā€™ve learned, they are painful.

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You called him a miserable old fart why was that ok but it wasnā€™t ok for him to take a shot back at you

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You called him an old fart first. So what he said to you isnā€™t anything different than what you said to him. Fairs, fair :woman_shrugging:

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Just tell him you are sorry and how bad your feelings were hurt! Then have some wild makeup time! Put this miner crap in perspective and move on. Go right now and call him your preious angle and see if he can match your complyment! Overcome bad with good ,regardless of what you think men do have feelings!

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Eaaahh he called me a name after i called him a name!!! I wanna be a princess and no one can call me names waah!!

This is literally what you sound like

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Seems like he was called: miserable, old, and a fart. Please donā€™t dish it out if you canā€™t take it.

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I would say it was a tongue in cheek response to your ā€œold fartā€ comment to him
Lol
In Australia we would find that humorous and would possibly have a better come back thatā€™s equally funny

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Treat ppl the way you want to be treated. :woman_shrugging:t4: U started it. He ended it :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Now that you have said ugly things to each other schedule a date night and reminisce about when you fell in love.

If stuff like this bothers you then donā€™t do it to him.
He was responding to you. He either got hurt and retaliated or figured ā€œif sheā€™s playing around, I can play tooā€ and was just joking (which is what you did to him).
Donā€™t start something if you canā€™t take the same in return

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Why are people laughing at this post? ā€¦ It isnā€™t funny ā€¦ What she said had no intended maliceā€¦ like calling somebody Silly Billyā€¦ Whar he said hurt hurt to the Coreā€¦ I take his comment to me that she is an old ho that everyone has had a turn on ā€¦ He sounds like a mean jackass ā€¦ And he didnā€™t care when she started to cry ā€¦

That doesnā€™t even make sense you can joke & call him names but he canā€™t joke & call you names!? Get over yourself lady :roll_eyes:

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Maybe heā€™s wondering why you called him an old fart? :person_shrugging:

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No insult is a good insult, even meant to be funny.

Lol you get what you get :joy_cat::rofl::woman_facepalming:t3:

Get over it u said something and he said something back grow up he was teasing

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Spice things up for him in the bedroom and show him that your old bike stills races :wink:
You name called and he went one further and offended you, itā€™s not something to make a Facebook post over.

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You canā€™t expect to call someone a name and not get the same thing in return. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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What is an old ā€œbikeā€? Iā€™ve never heard of that before & def not in a derogatory wayā€¦:woman_shrugging:t3:

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Wat did u expect you called him a miserable old fart now Ur affended that he called u an old bike wether Ur joking or not why would u do that on Ur anniversary u brought it on urself :roll_eyes:

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If you canā€™t take a come back you shouldnā€™t have started it. Do you think you might have hurt his feelings too. Say your sorry and move on, cause if you donā€™t its gonna escalade and who knows where it goes from there.

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How are u going to be upset when he call u a name when ur the one who insulted him first??? That makes no sense u thought u were being funny so he probably thought he was being to get over ur self honestly if u canā€™t take a joke or insult when u give one then donā€™t insult someone

You said something first.Seems like you should not dish it out if you canā€™t take itā€¦

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How are People saying thatā€™s ok. She called him an old fart and heā€™s basically called her a slag!!

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You said a snazzy comment first. Get over it.

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Wow. I canā€™t believe these comments. Heā€™s called his wife a slut. A tad different to an old fart.

WTF!!! Are you being serious right now or is this some kind of joke. If you donā€™t like getting called names you shouldnā€™t do it either

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What are you expecting from a miserable old fart?!? In all seriousness I think youā€™re being over sensitive and overthinking. Take it from a sensitive overthinker. You jabbed him and he jabbed back. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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You literally started it :joy:

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Soā€¦umā€¦.what does an ā€œold bikeā€ mean?

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Anything said that hurts on any level isnā€™t funny.

really grow up you jokingly called him an old fart and he replied back with old bike which donā€™t know what that means but you canā€™t expect to be able to call someone a name and him not call you one back. did you think maybe you could have hurt his feelings by saying old fart? Bet you didnā€™t think about his feelings only yours.You must be offended very easy by ppl.

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Did you ever consider maybe you hurt his feelings when calling him an old fart. When ditching out your going to get it back.

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ā€¦is this real? You raggin or goin through menopause?

Like i tell my kids. Donā€™t start shit if youā€™re just gonna cry

He probably thought you were teasing him, so he did it back.

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What did you expect him to say?? :thinking:

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You called him an old fart. Not a nice thing to call a hard working man. You need to give your man more compliments.

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Donā€™t give out what you canā€™t take

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You like to dish it out but canā€™t get it back. Did you think you might have hurt your husband feelings with what you called him. Stop acting like a hurt princess when you started it. Good on him for giving it back to you

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If ya canā€™t take it, donā€™t dish it, simple!

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Is this a joke? This sounds like a joke. You literally initiated a name-calling sesh and now your upset about it and worried? Iā€™m so confused. Are you looking for things to get upset over. ?

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Well, you were rude calling him a Miserable Old Fart. He may have been tired too as you mentioned.
Butā€¦do you ever show your appreciation to him?
On the bright sideā€¦at least he didnā€™t call you a Miserable old bikeā€¦:woman_shrugging:t2:

Some seriously dumb People on here. And very worrying that many are saying itā€™s ok he called her an old whore/slag for her calling him miserable/moody.
I hope none of you have daughters and would allow a man to speak to her like that. Although youā€™re probably the types that are in relationships where stuff like that is ok and thatā€™s even more worrying :grimacing:

Theae girls are so fucking stupid like wtf.

Whatā€™s an old bike? :thinking:

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Iā€™ve been called worse by minešŸ™„

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Donā€™t give out what you canā€™t take and you clearly need to get sense of humour

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Not sure what an ā€œold bikeā€ is but Iā€™m sure he didnā€™t appreciate being called miserable either :woman_shrugging:t3:

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If you wanted a compliment you should have complimented him. You chose to sling shit and he did the same, he has feelings too. Did you think about if your statement hurt his feelings?

Ok. Old bike =slag. Please tell us what a slag is to help us understand

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: your problem is self made there for it needs self fixing :woman_shrugging:t5:

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:thinking: :thought_balloon: :thinking: What if he called you an old fart. Name calling is not nice for either partner.

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Is there a way to screen some of these posts?? :thinking:

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Then why did you start it?. Words do hurt. Maybe you both should slow down and smell the Roseā€™s. Learn to live with less. Just my opinion!

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You called him names first :thinking:

Also Iā€™ve never heard the term ā€œold bikeā€ but it made me giggle a little :face_with_hand_over_mouth::woozy_face:

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