I went into labor at 2 1/2 months and then they did the d/c.
I just went though my 1st miscarriage back in February and it would have been my 1st baby, my Fíance and his family was super supportive and I talked to his preachers wife who had gone though 4 miscarriages, I was super depressed and blamed myself for the longest time (still do sometimes) but it helped to talk to other people and realize everything your feeling or going through 100% valid and you shouldnt feel guilty (there is a million things that can go wrong it’s not your body) and idk if your religious but praying helped when you were having a hard day, I also made a chart of all the feelings and things I was going through (it felt better to get it on paper) and give yourself time to heal, I kept beating myself up over not feeling better but it takes time and you need to give yourself that time, it took about a month for my Physical body to heal and a couple months mentally, and I still get sad and things still trigger sadness but it does get better with time, I hope you feel better soon
I had to wait 2 weeks through Christmas to have a DNC done because there was no heartbeat.
Please get a second opinion before the D&C.
Just hold off on the d&c. Just wait a few weeks. This happens a lot when everything is ok.
Pero eso no puede esperar.no puedes andar por allí con un bebé muerto dentro de ti.en lugar de visitar debes ir al médico.que importa lo que piensen otros.importa como te sientes tú.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. God needed your perfect baby more. My your heart heal knowing you loved that baby and so many others did also. Hugs sweet lady. God bless you.
I’m so sorry for your loss 
. It isn’t weird at all to be confused or sad cry or scream if you need to momma 
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I don’t know what your going through but I do know that you and your husband need to grieve together as well as apart. Go to him hold him as he cries and let him hold and comfort you as you cry do it together. Talk with your mother even if she’s far away . Remember that your baby is being cradled in the arms of our heavenly father and one day you’ll be with that baby in heaven. My prayers are with you. God bless you.
our angel baby stop growing at 9 weeks…I found out at 16 weeks our baby passed which was on a Monday the night before I KNEW something was going wrong, I couldn’t get my D & C til Wednesday, to help my mind they did another ultrasound the morning of surgery 
…it was our first baby as well…it KILLED me …this happened Sept 2007… I completely lost myself we ended up splitting in Jan/Feb 2008…we got back together Nov 2009 had to do fertility treatments and had our son Dec 2012 married 2014 then our daughter 2016 (no fertility treatments 
) he’s truly my soulmate <3 I wish it didn’t take time apart but maybe it made us stronger and help me heal (I wild out) We both STILL talk about our little angel every now n then. Everyone heals differently… Many prayers for you and your hubby
My heart 
and prayers are with you. I’m so sorry you are going through this love. My sister went through this. She has two healthy babies now. I know you will make it through this. You and your hubby. It’s difficult to process. Take your time with your decision and do what your heart tells you. We are all here for you. #supportmothers
Many hugs. Pray with your husband to comfort each other. God surround this family at this difficult time
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God will give you strength. I think it would be easier to have surgery then explain to family. Everyone will be sad but can grieve together. So sorry
I am so sorry you are going through this. Words can’t do much while your in an emotional state of flux. I pray they can help you. (Medical termination) I had to have one. It was better than my friend who had to carry to term. This too shall pass but anything you’re feeling is natural. Always remember. It wasn’t your fault. Lots of love maybe this child wasn’t ready for all the negativity on our plane of existence. Sometimes you may never find the answers, just some solace at the end of the day 
Let it all out. My heart is grieving for you all. One day when you have both healed, you will expand your family. I wish you well. Lots of Love and Light and Peace:pray:
Sweet girl pray! You can talk with God about it and ask for his comfort and healing of your heart and mind. Ask to to take this pain from you so that you may go on. Have faith🙏 God bless you and your husband.
I went thru this a few times. Allow yourself to go thru the grieving process. Praying for strength for you guys
I went through this also. I was about 12 weeks. It devastated me. I was a teenager and the person I was with abused me and raped me. That child " at the time I thought this way" was all I would have out of that horrible situation. It took some time, but I realized that everything happens for a reason. That child coukd have been born with so so so many deformities, all kinds of terrible health issues, and the list goes on. That doesn’t even include that the psychopath would have a way into my life for 18 years!!! What would he do that that child!!! I after all of those terrible things, I assumed that I would never be able to have children from trauma. Here I am with an incredible husband and an amazing 6 year old boy. That crazy man will never be in my life again! I have forgiven him and myself and I moved on knowing that my beautiful baby was in heaven and healthy. It is ok and healthy to grieve. But please do not let this sadness overcome you. I am terribly sorry that you are going through this. I suggest you go and visit your sister. It doesn’t mean that you forgot about your loss. It means that you will not let it defeat you and you will allow yourself to be mentally healthy.
Praying for peace & healing for you & your husband! I am so sorry for y’alls loss. I’ve been there & I wouldn’t wish that feeling on my worst enemy! It’s hard…take your time! 
So sorry:( This is something I have never gone through but I imagine its one of the hardest things. So I pray for healing and comfert.
Oh sweetheart I’m so praying for you and your family! You tell your family and let them help you and your husband thru this! You both need shoulders to lean on!!prayers going up for you!!
Sorry for all u gone thru or going thru u need to talk to ur mom or a best friend they both will help u n support u plus relieve some stress it does help some.
Talk about it in due time . Grieve. Cry. Love. Hug. Cry some more. Moms know. Lean on her.
Put your faith and worries on God . AND KNOW your baby is in Jesus hands now . And not in this world. I know it’s hard you and your hubby are in my thoughts and prayers … rip little one
So sorry for ur loss I personally would schedule soon as possible that way I could begin the healing process
I’m so sorry. Just cry and you will feel better. And lots of praying would ease your mind and your heart too!
Sooooo sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your tiny angel. Prayers for peace and acceptance.
All those feelings, but i bet your Mom would want to know, I’m so SORRY, Hugs and Prayers to all of you
The way you feel is the way you should feel. Do what brings you relief from your pain. Prayers for you and your hubby.
So very sorry for your loss I have been where you are😥 mine passed on its own
I’m so sad and sorry:cry: it will take time to feel better. I’m so sorry:pray:
Im so sorry. I went through this at 16 weeks. Big hugs, prayers. Take as much time as you need. Cry as much as you need
You need your family and friends for support. It’s ok to share your pain with them. They will only make you stronger with love and support. Praying for you 
.
I am so sorry. I am here if you find the need to talk to someone.
I am so sorry. I miscarried at 13 weeks. Prayers for you for peace and healing.
My love to you. This is a rough time. Cry if you need and write us. Hugs to you
So sorry for your loss. The grief is real and shouldn’t be tucked away. 
I’m so incredibly sorry. Share the news with your trusted love ones. Take time to grieve your loss…all my love…xxxooo
So sorry for your loss… everyone grieves in their own way… praying for you and your family
It is hard. God knew what was best. Just know you will meet them one day in heaven.
Been there. It hurts. Allow yourself to cry, to grieve. You will heal, but you will go on. Hugs.
I’m so sorry there is no right way to deal with you are doing great
That happened to me and yes you need to take time to grieve. I’m sorry
Imagine a pink bubble around your baby, and imagine the heartbeating. Do it. With all your love.
Omg I’m so sorry. I’ve never gone thru this but I feel so bad. I hope u find a way to heal. I think that u and ur husband need to mourn together. It will get the both of u thru this. My thoughts r with u and yours
I’m sorry I really don’t have advice I just feel so bad for you and your husband I’m crying with you I’m praying for you and your husband I’m very sorry God bless both of you
God bless you ! So sorry! Sending up prayers! Any of the feelings you’re having are completely normal!!
That’s one of the hardest things to ever hear. I’m so sorry.
Good luck with prayers to God who will help you cope with this situation. Xo
I do t know what you are going through, but my heart breaks for you.
So sorry for your loss. You grieve how you see fit to do so. Prayers up!!
I let my body deliver my son on it’s own. I couldnt stomach the thought of a d&c
There is no right or wrong way to feel. Let your self grieve your loss. May God comfort all of you.
That happened to me too. So sorry for your loss.
U should feel however u feel and do whatever u think is best for you. Im so sorry u are going thru this
If you are a child of God you will see that baby when you get to heaven. Prayers for you.
I’m so so sry:heart: it is so hard and I’m also so so sorry for all the other mommy’s
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of prayers your way
I’m an so so sorry. My prayers are with you.
You need to talk to someone. Don’t be sad on your own.
I’m so sorry… That’s heartbreaking… Lots of prayers:pray: hang in there
So dry you lost your baby my granddaughter lost. hers to I know how you feel I lost 1too
so sorry…listen to your DR. but get a second opinion
Allow yourself time to heal emotionally your feelings are normal
Oh sweetheart. Your baby was just to perfect for this world… I’m sorry your hurting.
Angels surround you in the light of love and healing 
You and your family are in my prayers . So sorry about the baby.
You are naturally very sad, this happens, no ones fault. 
best of luck with everything your going through. You will know who you will share your story with, pick people to be supportive of you,
keep Praying power in Prayer when 2 or more gather in Prayer God answers so Pray with the father Im sending Prayers miracles happen everyday!!
Second opinion praying for you and your family
Bless You. You will figure it out in your own way and time. 
Let yourself feel however you need to feel and take as much time as you need…
You need to talk about it. You need to be supported and heal your heart.
Your little one is in God’s arms. May God give you all the peace and comfort at this time of your loss .
Girk. I went through the same and it hurts like hell
you are feeling sorry as you should but it will pass and perhaps you will try again. god bless and good luck hr
Your little baby is not gone forever he or she is waiting patiently for you in Heaven with Jesus you will meet your baby when your time comes
You can feel however you want! This baby is with the Lord now!
Exactly the way you are feeling…sorry for your sad news…
That is a tragedy and I’m so sorry for your loss
You should just feel. I have been there.
My heart is breaking for you also!!
Talk to a professional - mourn the loss! Feel the feels. Sending you healing
That happend to me at 5 months, God bless
It’s not weird. Hugs and prayers.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve.
So sorry I can’t imagine the pain💔
Take your time and mourn the loss…Be kind to yourself
Everything will happen in your time. Don’t let anyone decide for you
Happened to me 10 years ago. I had my D&C the next day. Hugs
So sorry, everything will be fine. You will have another❤
Get a second ultrasound
I’m so sorry for your loss
Please get a second opinion as well.
You have suffered a loss. Take time to cry. It’s okay.
So sorry for your loss!
I’m sorry for your loss🙏
I’m sorry for your loss.
The way you feel is right for you.