I have a blended family all kids are treated equally period
And who had your kids when you flounced off for two nights running?
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Depends if he brought the food home then yes he should have. If they stopped ate inside or ate in the vehicle then I don’t see the problem. Your kids would never know unless someone told them. I would have left too you should have stayed and talked to him not go to a bar then the casino.
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You were absolutely wrong! You’re kids are basically always there & he sees his son 8 days out of the month??? Very wrong, on so many levels! Also, he has every right to do special things w/ ONLY HIS SON! I’d have certainly left you too!! How dare you?!?!
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If he brought the food home and ate it in front of you and your kids then yes I would be mad too. But if they ate it before coming home, then oh well. That’s his bonding time with his baby. Now I’d be mad if you went out 2 nights in a row.
He was quick to leave over McDonald’s so I would just move on.
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Tbh you are wrong. If I’m out (and usually have my 7yr old with me) and we got food while out, and didn’t come home with food for everyone else I’m the bad guy? No. My oldest kid gets food door dashed or out, same with my niece or just me n hubby will get something and I only get the youngest something or my mom will go eat with my aunt or niece together…you threw a fit over that stupid shit? You got issues. Now if they’d gotten home and ate it in front of y’all then that would be F’ed up but he didn’t.
Did he bring the food home to eat? Its different buying his one child a meal vs him buying your 3 children meals. There’s more to this for him to move out and not be communicating with you. Either he’s seeing someone else or he’s just had enough of the arguing. Time to move on with your kids.
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Let him go stop texting him or reaching out to him he should had brought food for everyone smh
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Sounds like there is more to it as that one thing wouldn’t cause him to leave and pack everything up… And if his son was working with him they were hungry and got food to eat on way home, doesn’t sound bad to me. I think you both need the go seperate ways of this is truly what broke your relationship up, it was never strong to begin with
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Clearly you should just move on. He Just Did. And the kid just spent the day with his dad so there’s No reason why he shouldn’t go to Macdonalds for Their dinner. What’s wrong with that. Makes No sense you’d nag him over just eating dinner with his son after work all day… he left because you probably nag him like crazy over petty bs and he’s over it.
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Just let him go. If he doesn’t view your kids as his own then he isn’t worth it.
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This is a complex problem. I think there’s more at work here than take out food. It sounds like McD’s was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Maybe you should try to get into counseling and see if you can unravel the problem. I don’t think he’s going to answer you or ever come back. I feel like he’s upset that you are upset that he does things for his son. It could be he didn’t have enough money to get McD’s for all the kids. But he needed to feed his boy. He probably didn’t want to get into it again since you’ve had words about it before. So he just decided to leave so that when he does get time with his son, it’s just the two of them. He doesn’t have that much time with his son and he doesn’t want to spend it fighting with someone else. Your best bet is to let him go. Work on yourself and your relationship with your babies. Bond tight with them and spend as much time with them as you can. Get some therapy to let go of your boyfriend. Study healthy relationships and boundaries so that when you meet someone new, you will know what is reasonable to expect and what isn’t.
YTAA.
LET THAT MAN BUY HIS KID SOME FOOD YOU SELFISH WOMEN …
Yikessss i would be leaving as well for this dumb stuff
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You weren’t with him and his child maybe that’s there thing to do together you took off like a child because he didn’t bring your kids anything sounds like you guys need to work on communication between the two of you but he’s not responsible for your kids you could have took your kids out to eat or order something he probably left because he saw red flags on you for taking off it’s no one else responsibility to take care of your children and you taking off and come home to him leaving plus you weren’t together for that long. 
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Move on find a man that will include your kids xx
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I’d put money on him being narcissistic YES MOVE ON RUN GIRL RUN and he damn straight should have bought your kids food if he bought his son food too unless that food was gone before hand and not displayed in front of other children that is a common courtesy thing IMO
I would move on. It’s not just about the issue of the argument… Its also the fact that you expressed how you felt about something and it turned into you guys going a day and a half without speaking, and him moving out without having any sort of communication. It shows how the relationship wasn’t stable and lacking healthy communication & understanding of each other’s feeling.
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Sounds like he’s just tired of your shit.
Did his kid eat in front of yours? If not, I don’t see the issue
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Y’all: “Girl leave him”
Her post: “HE LEFT ME” 
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If you were all together maybe but was he in town when he got it or further away? I don’t always buy every kids McDonald’s especially if they aren’t all with me… I will make the others something when I get home. 
That’s me though
If this ain’t the same tiktok lady who threw a hissy about her 3 kids not getting McDonald’s 
girl if you dont take your a$$ out and buy your kids McDonald’s 
it’s not that serious and since you’re on a high horse, who’d you leave your kids with when you went to the bar and casino? Was it him? Is that fair to him to watch your kids? I mean, since you wanna be petty 
Yes, it was wrong not to include your children to McDonalds.
Move on. You don’t need to raise another child.
All kids no matter the situation should be treat the same you weren’t in the wrong
You’re both wrong. A, when you have an issue you do not take off to a bar to "cool down " you go outside, in another room or for a 10 minute walk. B, do not run off with your girlfriends before talking to your man. You acted single love so hes just making you single. He is also wrong my bf isn’t allowed to buy food out and bring it back to our house without buying something for my son and our daughter as well, period. In a relationship you respect each other and think about one another’s feelings and none of you did that in this.
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No you weren’t wrong and he has moved on so you should too.
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This is bigger for him. If he is not willing to communicate now and he literally moved and changed his status then he has left the relationship. You should just move on.
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He just moved out. Move on.
You do for all of them I have two daughters and 3 step kids I don’t do anything for one that I don’t do for all
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Excuse me. But was he watching your kids while you were at the bar and then at the casino. And was he still an hour away when he stopped at McDonald’s?
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Move on bro what a selfish twat he is.
Umm y’all was in a argument even before the food or just after.
You’re not wrong. I don’t think you handled it right by going out and ignoring him, it doesn’t send a good message. But the initial issue of him not considering your kids is valid. Honestly if he already moved all the way out and ignoring you, just move on.
It’s over, Girl. If you’re already asking if you should move on you aren’t as invested as you act.
I mean if it was just him and his son then he’s not in the wrong at all, had you ALL been together or your children were with them aswell then yes he should buy food for all kids but if it was only the two of them then why can’t you make food for just you and your kids
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I’m curious where your kids were those two nights in a row you went out?
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Move on. If he left over something like that he ain’t worth it
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Not sure it even matters at this point. Maybe in future relationships you should discuss things like this before you move in together but as for this one. He’s gone. Move on. If he didn’t get his stuff, check the laws and change the locks.
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I don’t think he was in the wrong. He was with his child over an hour away. If everyone had been together then yes he should have bought for all or you buy for yours. But being you all weren’t together when he got it then he is not in the wrong.
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You are not wrong. Let Jim leave you and your kids deserve better
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Two nights of you running off to bars and casinos while yall are in a bad way, arguing and then not talking? I wouldn’t deal with that either tbh. Its hard enough being on the outs with your lover and not talking for days, but i aint about to be wondering what my man is doing in the middle of the night at a bar when we’re in a bad way and he’ll talk to other people but not me, and with all those angry emotions leading your actions.
He got his kid some food good grief. He was already out with him.
Maybe he’s just sick of your crap and was looking for a reason to go. . Can you change? Do you want to? If not cut your losses.
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Going to play dart and then the casino. Girl I’m not surprised he left you. I thought this was a joke post lol
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He’s childish af! You don’t need that in your life or your kids lives. And I think you need to focus more on how that makes your “kids” feel when he does stuff like that. Totally fucked up!
He was out with his child. It’s not like he left the house, went and got food and came back home. That’s a different situation. He wasn’t wrong.
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His actions show he wasn’t that invested in you and your children!!! Honestly as far as getting his kid McDonald’s and nit your kids that isn’t a big deal in the sense if his kid is hungry he needs to feed his kid qnd he could have assumed you had dinner going already BUT he shoulda called asked what dinner plans were and included you and your kids OR if you were cooking made sure him and his son ate before coming back… end of the day sometimes ill take one of my kids to eat and not another… like say I had ro take one to an appointment and the other isn’t with me… kids don’t always get the same things, kids need to learn just because one gets a treat don’t mean qll get q treat every time…
No you’re ridiculous. It’s not like you were with them. They ate on the ride. He dodged a bullet with you
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It would be one thing if your kids were with him when he bought the food but if he bought it and his son ate it on the way home there is nothing wrong with that unless he brought it home and let his son eat it in front of them. Sounds to me like he was looking for a reason to leave to begin with–let him go
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Move on that is totally wrong if one gets it ALL SHOULD!! IMO
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Sounds like you’re both toxic for each other and in the wrong
Who cares about what random internet people think! If it bothers you that’s fine. You are allowed to feelings. Honestly if he was willing to bail out on your relationship without talking to you it’s good he’s gone. It sounds like you two were on different pages and they don’t fit in the same book. If you want a long term relationship with a guy who’s treating your kids differently- why? It’s good to be single. Don’t rush into anything . Be single focus on your kids and see if you need anyone to make life better.
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Like if he brought the food home and was eating in front of your kids then I think maybe yeah you’d have a reason to be annoyed but that’s not clear in the post exactly what happened, so I’m not sure. And leaving the house two nights in a row and not coming to a resolution after an argument was probably pretty off putting to your BF. Maybe he hasn’t come back for the big stuff because he hasn’t figured out a way to haul it or where to put it….
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Move on. He’s never gonna see your kids as his. Be glad he left.
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So while he was
With his kid that he has only 8 days of the month while yours are there 24-7 he got
him McDonalds and you took it upon yourself to get mad then take off with your friends to the bar all night / weekend now you’re wondering why he left. Can’t even take his kid out for lunch t
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Ummm… the problem is more than food. You took off leaving your 3 kids behind. He was smart to leave you. You were using him to go hang with your girls under the pretext of being mad for not feeding your children who seemed to have not been fed by you in this argument.
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Should you move on? 
Girl he already left you. 
Hell you should’ve drop kicked his a** to the curb for doing your kids that way. You already said this is NOT the first time that y’all talked about this. Y’all were in a relationship and lived under the same roof. So you were NOT being unreasonable for getting upset. But honey, this man was NOT the one for you. You have children to think about and they should come first. He obviously doesn’t give a damn about your kids so move on. Hopefully one day you will find a DECENT man to be a part of your kids’ lives.
Even though your kids were not with them at the time he could have at least asked you if he should grab some for them! I see many comments here saying that you are wrong BUT kids tend to see and get hurt by these little things. I would just move on without him, think you and your kids will be better off. Good luck Mamma:hugs:
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You went out two nights in a row instead of talking to him… You sure weren’t thinking of him or any of the kids when you did that… Over a macdonalds? Seriously… Come on girl grow up
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If he stopped to eat with him then no I wouldn’t expect it. But sometimes my bf goes to get us food and doesn’t get my kids food and I’m like that’s weird we’re sitting here eating Chinese and now I have to make them dinner. But sometimes he does get them food too. But I wouldn’t have been mad he was out with his kid and fed him. But that’s a stupid reason to move out so sounds like there were other problems.
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Your kids weren’t even with him. & he only sees his son 8 days a month & you’re complaining that he didn’t buy your kids food too? Lol I don’t blame him for leaving at all, but I do believe he should do it in a mature way instead of trying to ghost you.
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You deserve better…he was already looking to leave or he would not have so quickly… he is a narcissistic dick.
That man packed up and left with the swiftness. He had no intentions of staying for the long haul. Change your status, delete and block his number before you get tempted. Block him on all social networks.
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So do you take his kid a meal to his Moms house every time you feed your kids?
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You were wrong for going out to escape the issue instead of solving it
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You weren’t wrong at all.
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Move on! He’s in the wrong, can’t apologise and made it a bigger deal than it needed to be. You and your kids come as a package deal, if he’s not on board with that he needs to go.
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He’s made a lucky escape. Imagine being so triggered that you get mad that he had food with his son wow.
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He sees his child 8 days a month. He was spending quality time with him, got food on the way home. Maybe he thought you or your kids already ate? Or understood the common sense that they were an hour away. Then what if he did bring McDonald’s home to your kids? You would have bitched because it was cold and he should have got it from a closer one?He was focused on what he should have been - spending the rare time he gets with his child. If he lives with you full time, splits the bills and your kids are there full time, he’s already taking on the responsibility of your kids. By the time you went around gallivanting at bars and shit, his kid had probably already gone back home, which is likely painful already to him, and, instead of considering that, you were more concerned of your kids not getting McDonald’s 
If he brought it home and ate in front of you guys then I get it. He’d been at work with his son obviously pretty far away, my husband would have assumed I’d already put dinner on and simply messaged and said don’t worry about us we’re starving we got food on route home. I don’t see the big deal if they ate it while travelling, you haven’t stated wether this was the case or not but if he didn’t bring the food home and your kids knew nothing about it I’m sorry but get over it. I’m sure there’s times you guys have McDonald’s when his kid isn’t there, should you buy some for his kid and drop it off every time? Don’t make something out of nothing.
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Getting upset over a father buying McDonald’s for his son is ridiculous, not surprised he left you at all!!
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It’s appears it’s more than buying food.
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Omg grow the actual fuck up seriously. He got HIS OWN CHILD THAT WAS WITH HIM A MCDONALD’S. GROW UP go get ur own kids one ur extremely petty,. Ur children WHERE NOT THERE, u petty little thing go ask you’re children’s dad to take them to work and to buy them a McDonald’s Instead of being jealous of a child ffs
ONLY his son was with him, so not buying food for kids that are nor there makes sense.
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You weren’t WRONG! He was in the wrong! Move on definitely!
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You both sound immature. You’re complaining about him not buying your kids food , you both don’t communicate, and you go out 2 nights in a row ? Yes he could have offered to buy your kids food but that doesn’t mean you take off partying 2 nights in a row without even talking about it.
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You leaving your kids to go out and party is the biggest problem.
Yes, he should have bought food for your kids. You could have gone to McDonald’s and gotten them food as well, but decided to go to a bar instead. Wtf makes you think that was the right choice? You took off, two nights in a row, back to back to go party and did not even attempt to reconcile with that man, but you was out having a blast without a care in the world. No mam, you screwed the pooch on that one yourself.
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So we was at work with his son all day and not allowed to have hot food afterwards?
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If he bought McDonald’s a hour away from u then all yalls food would have been cold and nasty by the time he got home
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Move on, he doesnt care he wanted a sugar momma not an equal partnership
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I mean its unkind that he brought food in infront of ur children for him and his child to eat but at the same time it’s not his responsibility. U should have went out and got ur children food Instead of going to play darts. Where was ur children when u decided to go out? U did go out 2 nights in a roll over mcdonalds. That’s a bit petty imo. I mean sounds a bit more in depth than just over some mcdonalds
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You were not wrong, he should have gotten your kids food too. I would move on.
It depends, if his son ate his food before they went home then that’s nothing to get all mad about, but if they took it home and ate in front of your kids than that’s just rude.
So, he fed his kid at a restaurant where they sat down to eat but you expected him to bring some home, too? I mean yeah it would’ve been the nice thing to do but why couldn’t he just enjoy a meal with his son? If he didn’t bring the kids food to the house in front of the other kids what’s the big deal???
Maybe he just got his son food bc his son was hungry then and it was a hour drive home. Maybe he was thinking when he got home y’all would figure out the dinner situation for the rest of y’all? I mean….
Now, we don’t know all the facts of this statement cause you just said he bought food on his way home. You didn’t say if they ate it on the way home or if they brought it home and ate it in front of you all. So, if it was purchased and ate before they got home then no, you have nothing to stand on as they were an hour away. Had they bought it and brought it home and are in front of everyone and not offered or at minimum told you what they were doing so you could do the same then I see a problem there. But my other issue is you left and partied two days instead of staying home and talking like an adult. I’m sure he did get mad and then left when you stopped partying. Especially if you left him home with 4 kids after working all day because you were mad.
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If they brought it home in front of your kids he should’ve but if they ate and your kids didn’t know he shouldn’t have to
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You weren’t wrong. It’s a big red flag if he isn’t willing to view your kids as his, especially as long as you’ve been together. You should never be in a long term relationship with anyone who doesn’t love your children.
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First off, should you move on? Girllll, it’s only been 3 days. Sit your azz down with those 3 babies. Second, I agree with you but there are always special circumstances and he may have thought you guys had already eaten and he also could’ve called and checked with you.
It’s the move on part in 3 days that has me fumin. Why do you young ladies always have to have a man. Try peace with just you and your babies for awhile.
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Move on. You dodged a bullet
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If they were on their way home and it was late, of course he will buy him food. Your kids were at home with access to food right there. Yea, maybe not a special meal like his son got but they still were able to eat. He was in a car and it’s hard to deal with a child sometimes when they get hungry and whiney. There are times my parents got for just one kid and not all, but we ate it before we got home.
Maybe he should’ve talked to you before deciding to just move out.
This is really one giant petty argument
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If he ate it on the way home, then I’d say it was ok for just his son. But, if they brought their food home and ate in front of the others, that’s inconsiderate.
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it’s done. don’t put up with that.
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You’re being ridiculous to expect your step son to wait over an hour to get dinner. Get over yourself. Who cared for your kids while you were out partying and blowing off steam?
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Let him go. He left. He’s not willing to compromise. Were you wrong? If they grabbed a bite and ate it in the car on the way home, yes you were. If they brought it home to eat in front of the other kids, no you weren’t. Either way, he doesn’t want to deal with the issues of a blended family.
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Regardless of the details, if you don’t think he treats your children right, why would you fight for him? Doesn’t make sense.
And you know what’s weird. Your man said eff this and left your butt and you want to know if you’re wrong about McDonald’s. Not about leaving all the kids with him and ignoring him while you party with your girls, carefree, and blowing money for two days. And it doesn’t come across as it being a one time thing for you either. Frankly, you sound like a handful in all the bad ways. My advice is work on yourself and move on. You clearly broke the camels back with him.
Move on ! He should have bought food for your kids! But you should not have gone to the bar instead of trying to talk about the situation and going out with friends again the next night Sounds like you both need to act a bit more mature
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Sounds like neither of you are very committed. Both of you should move on.
He’s gone move on…if he lets something that petty break u up then I imagine he was looking for a reason to leave
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Honestly, i would move on from him. He should have been more considerate of you and your kids. Hell he could have called and asked atleast. Leaving your kids with him twice to go out wasnt the brightest idea, but atleast they were with an adult. I would move on from him and just be a single mom.
Trash took itself out all the kids should be treated the same. He’d have the hump if you left his son out.