For that 20%off coupon lol
I always buy off the registries. It bothers me when people don’t because obviously those are the things that you actually need you know what you need so why would people not help and get you something that you put on a list. That never makes sense to me lol I guess that’s why I always make sure and get something from their list.
First step in tracking people?I’m sure I’m wrong
i didn’t have a baby shower for either of my children (2). people bought things & dropped them off closer toward my 3rd trimester. i didn’t ask for anything! this is your 4th! don;t feel entitled that people need to buy your child anything… be grateful what they do get you. did you reciprocate when they had babies? geez, girl. blessings for the baby.
The idea of the registry is to let people know what you want. Whether or not they can afford that stuff is another thing. Friends and families have their own bills and kids to take care of and lately, with the way the economy has been has been a little difficult to take care of their own families and that being said- are the things on your registry expensive or are they affordable? Have you shared your registry on your social media?
Well after the 3rd didn’t you realize that you need to take care of your children. If you can’t afford them don’t have them. One baby shower for each gender and that’s it. Reuse go to second hand stores goodwill
Sorry, if you’re on your fourth kid you shouldn’t be having a baby shower at all, never mind a registry 
Be grateful for what you did get.
It’s your fourth child tradition says one baby shower and to save your stuff…
Buy your baby stuff or don’t get preggos
There I said it
Here’s the thing: it’s your child to provide for…and people are prob burned out from buying for your first 3…a shower for a 4th baby is a bit much
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Entitled much? I mean this is your fourth kid. You should know what you need and you shouldn’t expect people to provide for you. 
It’s called be grateful if they even get you anything. Baby registries are just a way of saying hey if you want to can you get this… it’s not an automatic way of getting things. I didn’t have anybody buy me anything we did have to buy carseat early which was brought by my mom cause my son had came early. You need to rely on yourself and your partner for what baby needs regardless if you have a registry or not. And be grateful for anything you receive if it’s something you didn’t ask for.
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you should have lots of hand=me=downs if you have all those kids. I had 1 baby shower my first. you shouldn’t expect a baby shower with every kid. all you should need to get should be diapers if disposable. Just greediness
Of course you would have to buy everything mainly yourself it’s your baby? Surely that’s your responsibility to make sure you got things for your 4th child not rely on others to prepare and get everything for you. It’s always nice to have gifts obvs but no one’s entitled to them. I’m pregnant with my 4th now and I’ve been buying bits here and there. Never had a baby shower etc and I don’t expect people to buy me gifts just because I’m pregnant it’s appreciated but not a neccessity.
Didn’t even HAVE a baby shower as I went into labor. YOU are the parent not other people lol. If you feel like you’re getting useless stuff FROM your registry maybe don’t put it on there
Honestly if you have 4 kids already, u should have a lot of what u need! They are GIFTS. Quit complaining and be grateful. Jeez. Entitled much?
Gross. It’s not everyone else’s obligation to buy what you need. It’s YOUR baby. 
How have you not gotten the stuff you NEED already?
Once upon a time women only had baby showers for their first born children, not 4+…
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Talk about ungrateful
Girl you better check your self
I know you’re pregnant
But hormones are out of control
4 th child you don’t even need a register much less ask any thing from anyone
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It’s your fourth , U didn’t save ur stuff from the other three:thinking:
It’s best to do baby showers and not registry. Be grateful of what is given and since this is your 4th, you should already know how and what YOU need to get for your child. Second hand cribs and car seats should be enough if your that financially tied up.
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If you cant use them take/ send them back to the store for credit and get what you do need. I bought my cousin several hundred dollars worth of stuff and spending that amount i wanted her to use enduring she got but i also have her the receipt so what she didn’t need is use she could take back and get what she did
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It’s your 4th baby and you have nothing
But it’s your baby ??? I didn’t know people were supposed to and obligated to buy the necessities for our own children !! 
with three others, you should have the basics, no ?
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Close ya legs if you can’t afford to reproduce.
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Why would you expect other people to provide the needs for your baby? 
Why didn’t you keep stuff from the first 3?
A registry is just a suggestion of things you would like or need , no guarantee anybody is going to get you that stuff
You should always be prepared to get everything yourself, especially on the 4th child!! People aren’t obligated to get anything at all, and sometimes people put ridiculously expensive items on those registries and expect people to supply them with everything they need through the registry. I always go to the registry for a gift, but many times I have ran into they have only really expensive items listed… you should be grateful for what you get, especially having a shower with a 4th baby. Are there many years between this one and your last that you don’t still have things that you need?
This is your 4th kid. You shouldn’t be asking people to get you anything. And if you can’t afford to get what you need, you probably shouldn’t be having a 4th kid.
You sound awful and entitled. Be thankful people got you anything at all.
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You’ve done this 3 other times, what happened to their stuff? Even if the youngest born one is a teen now, you still obviously know what to get and how long you have to get it. You can obviously do what you want, but baby registries for any more than the first pregnancy comes off a little… over expectant, I would say.
I have to agree with the majority of these. I’ve seen several registries and there’s so much on them that are needless items, and most are very expensive items, be more reasonable. These are very hard times, and not everyone can afford to spend a $100 and more on someone else’s child. If you’ve had 3 you should already have the big items like a crib, bassinet, high chair, stroller. Then you’d need small things, bottles, diapers, and some clothes. You sound very ungrateful and like it’s others responsibility to get what you want.
I do believe you’re only supposed to have a baby shower for your 1st baby and then if people want to buy you something for any other future babies they are welcome too. I have 3 kids and bought what we needed for my 2nd and 3rd baby. If you are having trouble doing it on your own probably shouldn’t be having another baby.
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You shouldn’t expect everyone to buy YOUR stuff,if anyone gets you things.you should be very thankful. Maybe the reason that didn’t get it is the same reason you didn’t, they don’t have the money.
Lol, what? Showers are meant for your first kid, not all the rest.
Who got u pregnant na… I’m sorry but I doh understand… telling ppl what to get u to me kind of stretching it and u even upset that what they give is not what was in ur list… I’m not from same place as u.or culture but baby showers are just gifts ur baby would receive as a courtesy… so if u get 4 vaseline and most stuff is the same u just appreciate the giving… I hope I not harsh. It wasn’t meant to be
…… usually people on their fourth kid don’t ask for other people to help them prepare for the kid.
Yikes. Does seem odd you have to provide for your child .
No one told you to have a fourth kid, though.
This is so ungrateful, if you thought the shower was purely for people to buy you things then that is pure narcissism right there.
Plenty of people have showers for every pregnancy nowadays including me so no need for the rude, judgmental comments. I also understand where you’re coming from about the registry. So many people asked me to make one so they could pick stuff from it but not one person actually did. Granted I was grateful for what I got and bought the rest myself but it was frustrating that I wasted my time making one when the only reason I did was because people asked me to.
4th child and you’re not prepared… Seems like a personal problem.
They are probably tired of buying stuff for your kid. One baby shower is enough. Maybe two depending on the age gap.
“I am pregnant with my 4th kid and now I have nothing that I NEED for baby and am having to get everything myself.”
You would think that by the 4th child this fertile woman would realize that providing for her kids is HER responsibility. 
Perhaps the people around her are sick of her expecting things from them. 
Depending on where you register after your baby shower you get coupons which was really the only reason I did either of my registries for my kids
Why stay having them if you can’t get what you need and are being ungrateful about the stuff you did get? You sound real immature and ungrateful here
4th kid and you still need more? 
where did all the previous baby things go. You should know by now how to get baby things cheap tbh. You’re on your 4th, come on.
No one is obligated to buy you things from your registry. You are responsible for YOUR baby’s needs. The way you’ve worded this makes you look entitled and unpleasant which may be the reason no one is helping you.
You got pregnant you sort the baby’s needs its 2023 ffs
Why do you have a baby registry for the 4th kid. I didn’t even have a shower for the 2nd
Or how about you don’t rely on the charity of others to get by? I bet you S.O. is super pleased with your ungrateful ass.
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I mean, this is YOUR baby. You’re solely responsible for it. Getting upset that others aren’t helping you afford the expenses is a little weird. If you can’t afford to have a baby, then don’t.
You sound selfish…how is it anybody else’s responsibility to get the things YOU need for YOUR baby?!
Ungrateful azz on your fourth child and can’t afford to buy your own shit. Stop having em! You’re lucky to get anything the fckn audacity. You oughta feel embarrassed to even make a registry and this post. I wld buy you dust Smfh
This post makes you sound super obnoxious. Not sure if you meant it to be that way. Reevaluate your registry. Don’t put anything you don’t need. You also have the option (on Amazon at least) to mark as a ‘must need’ item and you can write things like “priority” on them too. And you should be more than ready to “get everything yourself”… that’s what you signed up for.
Wait…… why are you having ANOTHER baby shower after the 4th?!?!?
A baby registry is a suggestion, nobody has to get you anything. Be happy with what you got and go buy what you need or look for a pregnancy near you to help with stuff you may need. You are not entitled to gifts just because you chose to have another child.
Well it’s your fourth kid. Weird to have a registry for that…
What a registry please does poster mean when u register the baby confused wit r3ading comments
I didn’t have a shower for my LG and I chucked most things away after my mc starting from scratch again no shower for this en ethier 14 weeks 3 days x
Well, I mean, 4th kid… you should probably just be thankful anyone gets you anything… if you can afford to have 4 kids, you should be able to afford what they need. I would understand if it was a first 
Ughhhhh, buy your creampie what it needs/requires.
Wow, normally after your first you don’t have another baby shower, some ladies are fortunate to have more than one, but it should not be expected. Shame on you, this is your baby and your responsibility, nobody else’s. It is up to you to provide, and maybe on this so called registry you have items that people cannot afford. You should be happy to get anything as this is your fourth child
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So a baby registry is just to give people ideas of what they could get you - it isn’t a requirement. If you get things you don’t want, then nicely say thank you and return it/give it away. It might be your 4th kid but no one has to buy your baby anything.
Maybe she should have sold everything she had if she planned on popping out more kids
Oh no - you have to buy your own stuff for a child you created.
imagine being this entitled…no one made you have four kids
4th? Seriously!? It’s not like this is your 1st or even 2nd! You have a lot of nerve even doing a registry! Be happy anyone gets you anything!
Baby registry is a waste of time. Nobody buys from them.
Baby showers were meant to be for the first child only to help new mothers get items they need. You were meant to reuse them from the first child for your further children. You were not meant to have a baby shower for every subsequent kid.
What did you do with all the shit from your first three?
You should of saved your stuff. You sound like a spoiled child. My opinion you should have a baby shower for the first only. So if you can’t buy the things you need for this baby your prolly should have thought about that and not expected it.
no one forcing you to make a registry anyways.
First of all for all I will say OP didn’t come here to ask how many children she should have, or what anyone thought of her life choices. She came to ask what the point is to have a registry if no one used it.
Noone knows her life story. If she wants to have a baby shower or registry with 8 kids then that is her right.
So many women judge others constantly, it’s no wonder folks feel so alone and refuse to ask for help or vent when needed. SMDH
If you can’t afford it yourself, stop having children? 
Why are you having kids that you don’t want to afford???
Well if this is your fourth kid maybe save some of the old baby stuff people have let social media really cloud their minds and can come off as VERY ungrateful most people have one baby shower
If you have gift receipts, exchange some of what you received for the items you need.
After 3 damn babies you dont have anything left for the 4th one? Dont expect people to get you things. That was your choice to bring another life in this horrible world. People like you need to get a effing brain before opening their legs.
Really??? Like who feels entitled to a baby shower on their fourth kid? Oh wait…. And then has the audacity to bitch about their GIFTS!
Lady, stop having kids. If you don’t have your shit together by now…
What an entitled little shit.
You sound ungrateful and entitled…maybe should’ve saved shit from the last 3 kids
Imagine whining about having to support your own child
Wow! Ungrateful much? You’re having your fourth baby and you’re bitching because people aren’t getting your stuff off the registry? Buy your own stuff!! It’s your 4th kid!!!
Why are you depending on other people to buy what you feel you need for your baby? I mean you’re on child number 4 and you don’t have anything you need. I’ve had 5 children and my mother and I bought everything I needed.
You should be thankful anyone is even getting you anything. Don’t expect people to buy you what you need for a baby you chose to have.
What do you need that people aren’t buying? If they’re big ticket items, I can understand that as that shit is expensive.
Lmfao you got pregnant they did not support your child’s needs yourself and don’t rely on other people to do so.
Just have a diaper party 
people will still bring shit besides diapers
I have seen ppl put things on the baby registry that are very pricey and ridiculous so that could be the case. They probably got what they could afford. I wouldn’t be mad I would be thankful because they didn’t have to get you anything. When I had my one and only child I never got a baby shower at all and nobody ever got me anything.
Are you really complaining that people aren’t buying stuff for YOUR baby?.. and not only that but your 4th?.. BUY the things you need. You shouldn’t be relying on other people to get the things you need.
Why don’t you use some of things from your ist 3 kids???
No one owes u anything! If u can’t clothe ur own kid then maybe u should stop having them!
Why put things on the registey u don’t need or won’t use? Seems wasteful. Times are hard for everyone, no one owes u anything nor do they have to buy u anything for the baby. Don’t be entitled. Go to thrift stores and try your local Facebook marketplace for tems u need. Everything doesn’t need to be brand new for the baby to be happy and healthy
Maybe at kid #4 you should be buying your own stuff anyway. Why is everyone else’s responsibility to supply everything you need 4 kids in? When I was younger, you had a baby shower for your first kid… unless they were like many years apart you might do another. After kid #2 I’d be like… fund your own responsibility. Plus, you sound super ungrateful. I wouldn’t wanna buy you a rag let alone an expensive gift that you clearly wouldnt appreciate.
The sense of entitlement that some people have is crazy. Ma’am you’re on your 4th kid, you’re lucky that people are purchasing ANYTHING for you. Why do I have this feeling that everything on your registry is probably super expensive? Take YOUR a** out and buy the things that YOU need for YOUR baby.
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This post. No good words for you ma’am
Please stop spreading them legs if your so dependant on others
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I never get people anything on a registry either. It’s either pointless to have, a waste of money or really expensive. But considering it is your 4th why are you even making a registry?? That’s a tad greedy
Can’t afford 4 kid don’t get pregnant
Your 4th child and you didn’t save what you received before? When you registered did you request expensive things . When it’s an additional child people tend not to spend as much as if it was for Motherhood for the first time. Maybe those expenses should be picked up by very close family .
To keep a million people from bitching at you to make one 
I knew nobody would pay attention to it, I just did one so they’d shut the fuck up about it.
You can get everything you need for cheap or free on Facebook marketplace or thrift store
You must be listing items that are over the price they expect to gift you. I saw a registry that was expected for a high priced baby high chair and she only wanted THAT ONE along with other ridiculous requests. Needless to say, she didn’t receive any of it as gifts.