What should I do about my boyfriend of 2 years talking to other females on dating websites? So had a gut feeling that something was up about his phone. I don’t know what it was. So I looked through his phone and seen he was on 3 dating websites. He was trying to meet up with these women on his lunch. Pay for there gasoline to come see him. He was saying that he wanted a friend to talk too, friends with benefits and such. He had done this a couple of months ago but with snapchat. After I found the snapchat, we had talked and worked through it. Then just two days ago I had the same gut feeling so I went through it again. That’s when I found out about the dating websites. He was saying the same thing to these women. Mind you life is very stressful for us and we’re not like we used to be. But we’re not in a bad place either. We still talk as friends and the sex is good for me to be 9 months pregnant. But idk rather to stay with him and work it out or just end it and move when the baby is born.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. What should I do about my boyfriend talking to other girls on dating sites?
Leave now, they don’t change.
Sounds like it has been time to go.
Girl leave. Point black he is disrespecting you the relationship everything. You deserve to be someone’s only one
He’s clearly not going to change. If I was you I would move on
Idk why so many women keep posting this same type of thing and expecting a different answer.
It is REALLY easy.
LEAVE. Good lord why put up with this nonsense? Just leave.
Once a cheater…mind…body and soul…always a cheater…he’s already broken your heart… be smart and find happiness elsewhere
There isn’t anything you can do about it other than leave. You can’t make anyone respect you, or change their behaviour. Seems like there is a pattern here.
He doesn’t love you. He doesn’t even respect you. You are a naive doormat that has proven time and time again that you are easy to cheat on and get away with. Know your worth…leave…and someday, you will find a man who also sees your worth
Umm red flags leave asap
Wait till you have baby before making any decisions . One thing at a time.
Mate- you leave…… simple 
Run! Clearly this behavior isn’t stopping. Being a single mom is much easier than being a mom at risk for an STD/STI and constantly worrying about a partner cheating. If he is like this now, imagine what he will be like once the baby comes! Don’t risk your health for this man.
I really wonder if some of these dilemmas are fiction. Are some women this naive.
Well thats cheating. So you either leave him or you deal with him going and doing this.
Talking to him etc and staying just shows he can do it and get away with it
He’ll do it now while you’re pregnant, he’ll do it when babies here, and there after. If he loved you he wouldn’t be looking else where surely, it’s time to leave, you’re only setting yourself up for more heartbreak and tears over what? A man who can’t keep it in his trousers? No!! You deserve better.
Just leave him, his behavior will only get worse. You are expecting a baby and he’s busy chatting up random females on dating websites, you deserve better
If he did this before then he is not going to stop. He will just hide it better. One day he will cheat if he hasn’t already. 3 dating sides is a bid much. Why are you even asking what you should do ?
Been there delt with that
At some point I knew I deserved better and left
I’m much more happy now
I hope you’re not living together because you are being used! You’re being used either way!
Go on these sites posing as someone else , get him to meet you , get your solid proof then dump his ass otherwise he will keep doing the same thing over & over , just my opinion
If he’s on dating site you are just his fall back girl. Get rid of him
You and the baby deserve better
If you don’t leave now you will. Start your child’s life off without him may be easier for you both in the long run.
Tell him he needs to stop doing that,give him one chance only and if it doesn’t stop,leave his ass, or just leave him anyway, you can do better by yourself and for your baby, prayers 
why are you even questioning this? you allow the behavior, he continues with the behavior… 
Smdh you dump him- he’s a loser
Choose yourself NOW!! Your life will be better without him❤️!!
What should you do? Dump him girl!!
I had my answer after reading the very first sentence. Leave! You need to have more respect for yourself. Hell I would have left after the Snapchat. Being cheated on is a one time deal breaker for me. If a man is seeking out other women he doesn’t love or respect you.
If hes not gonna stop and doea this with you. He wont ever stop. Walk.
It’s not gone stop. End it! Don’t even try to repaint the picture. It’s clear as day. He won’t change bc if he would, he wouldn’t had started back doing it again. Take heed, & run girl. Let somebody else deal with that.
leave him. leave before the baby is born. before your baby is stuck in a miserable, no trust, toxic household.
Tell him to get lost!! You’ll do better!
This is the second time you caught him being a hoe and your honestly wondering if it’ll change??
Dump him …Or stay with him and no sex and go dating yourself why not just call it quits
If he’s doing all this now you better start making plans to leave because it’s going to get worse he’s already cheating
I’d leave asap
God, what a scumbag!! Get him out asap. No one needs that shit. You’re better than that x
End it now he’s a player ok
Giving him one chance is all you need to say you tried. His lack of commitment is also lack of commitment to your family including your unborn child. He clearly feels no need to stay loyal to you so you have no reason to stay at all. If you don’t expect respect than you don’t have a partnership, you are his property. Be strong for your children, understand you deserve better and be strong enough to be enough without him. Good luck xx
Put a stop to it immediately. I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again Emotional cheating starts like this…it’s proven to be more damaging than physical depending on the level of intimacy shared…know your worth.
It will not stop do yourself a favour and leave you and your unborn child deserve better
Clearly it hasnt been worked out. He is making a choice so give him one. You stop doing it or baby and i leave. I had to do this before my husband and i got married- granted he was just liking risqué pictures or clevage shots but it bothered me i took off my engagement ring and told him if he needed that much attention from other woman/ giving to other woman then he didn’t need me and my daughter: he stopped, i made him propose again and he’s deleted social media. Hasnt had it since
Didn’t even read far…: DUMP HIM. Throw that man away.
Omg leave him already, he doesn’t respect you
If your planning on moving do it before the baby is born I know it’s hard while your pregnant but it’s even harder with a newborn
Either accept it and know he’s gonna have sex with someone else, if he hasn’t already, or move on. Don’t spend years of your life constantly giving “one more chance” because it will eventually tear you down so far that you don’t even recognize yourself. Trust me on that!!
D U M P him!!! should’ve done it after the sc incident but girl do it now!!!
leave, learn to co parent amicably and start therapy.
don’t allow this disrespect ever.
you deserve better, this man is a pig.
I’m sorry your better off without him! He’ll do it over and over RUN as fact as u can
A baby is never a reason to stay with someone. Especially if that person does not respect you.
You deserve better leave him
If he does it once, then twice, and you are having his child… I mean do you really have to ask?? Obviously this will never end and you should move on before you get emotionally/mentally broken from it, if you aren’t already. Don’t let him do this to you… It’s gross and so wrong. Also all you know is all he has let you know. The real truth is usually twice as bad. He wouldn’t be back at it again if he hasn’t had some success with his cheating… Been there, done that. Get out of there before it’s worse and you’re caring for a newborn.
Dump him!! Your baby will need you!!
Once he cheats he will keep doing it. I know of someone where her current husband cheated while they were still dating. Today they have two sons, they have been married 19 years, and he has cheated 19 times in that time. She had the same feeling again last year and caught him out, his excuse is he is not cheating he just visits them, its cheating. She is now had enough and is divorcing him. Don’t allow this to keep on happening for 19 years too, you are still young to find someone who will make you his number one.
Seems you’re waiting for him to bring you home an STD.
You know he’s cheating and you’re allowing it… You need some self respect.
Don’t wait until your baby comes. Go now. Get out before you feel trapped.
I’m getting so sick of seeing these posts…he’s cheating…leave
Move when Baby is born. He didn’t change the first time. Why would he change the second time
Dump him and move on. Why is this even a question!?
Oh dear girl. I didn’t even finish. He’s not a boyfriend, he’s a manipulative liar. Get away from him hunxx
Please girl I am ending a relationship due to the same kind of problems it don’t get better and it will only break you down and when you act crazy they will tell you that your the one who needs help when they are the reason for making you act crazy because once the trust is gone it’s gone it’s hard to rebuild specially when they show you that you can’t trust them more than once… don’t waste your time sweetie I am in the same boat found out during my pregnancy 2 years into our relationship that he was chatting with other women about meeting and paying them for sex and on escort pages and dating sites even went as far as to have other accounts in another person’s name!!! I found this out when I was 6 months pregnant and it broke my heart and my spirit and made me feel bad about myself it don’t get better 2 months after our daughter was born I went through his phone to find yet again. He still was sneaking around doing it… it don’t stop and sounds to me like he’s a narcissist who will always make it seem like your over reacting and some how it’s OK for him to do this to you… now we are ending things and I don’t know were I’m going or what I’m doing I have 2 kids one with him and one previously please don’t stay it will only break you down worse let go now don’t waste any more time.
As ypu process it all keep reminding yourself thiat
When you didn’t know, he was NOT SORRY. He wasn’t ENDING IT. He wasn’t loving, honoring or cherishing you.
Let THAT settle in, then make decisions.
Yep… kick him to the curb… He’s just not that into you. If he already acts this way… best before baby is born…
Leave him & work out a parenting plan. Be prepared to raise your baby by yourself.
Bottom line , he should not be on dating sites the bloody tool ,
Why are you asking? He is a pig and if you stay you are a doormat and a fool
He won’t stop. I think moving on would be best for you both and co parenting the baby (even though he is cheating he still should be able to see his child)
If he done this before and he done it again it will just keep happening you know the answer yourself time to move as hard as ir is lovely wirh going to be a new born baby, but you deserve a man who loves qnd adores you not someone who wanted to meet other girls for fun, having female friends is okay, but being on dating sites ia not okay and looking for fun while in a relationship unless consented is not okay…
You dump his ass.
That’s what you do and that’s how you handle that.
He’s cheating on you and that’s ridiculous- not to mention as you are carrying your child.
I’m so sorry. That’s sick and you deserve better.
You’re worth more. And you know it. Leaving is way easier than this I promise.
Honey he’s gonna keep doing it… move on before the baby comes… your gonna be to stressed to deal with that BS… start fresh so you can be a good mommy to your baby!!
Would you want your child to go through this? Are you into an open relationship, cause that’s what is going on…
Wow what even is the question? He’s cheating tell him bye
U poor thing… dont stay and be used… he doesn’t love you if he is doing that… honour urself and ur child and leave.
Girl run like hell and don’t look back as its only going to get worse
And don’t listen to any of his excuses!! You heard it all the first time!
You respect yourself and your health by walking away from him. Please get tested.
Im sorry for what you are going through.
If he has done it before and doing it again, on top of while you are Pregnant
It does not say much for his Character or his Commitment to you or this Baby.
It’s supposed to be a Special time for you both but clearly he has his mind else where. Stress is not an excuse to be unfaithful.
Dump him and move on, spare your kid all the drama you will now be going through to try save the relationship while Pregnant.
Be there for your child.
Talk it through with him again and work through it 
clearly he was just saying what you wants to hear and didn’t even think about stopping
End it and move. Don’t even think about taking him back. Just work on parenting with him for the sake of the baby. Don’t stress yourself.
You have to end it, end it now! Do not put yourself through anymore stress as this is very important definitely while pregnant. I know from experience it’s not healthy for you or baby. Don’t allow yourself & most importantly your child to be brought up in a stressful home/relationship. This is soooo unhealthy for you & your child 
sorry you’re going through this but you have to put your child first. It’s evident he’s NOT going to change… F his excuses!! You’ve already been there done that!! This time… LEAVE mama!
Toss him in the bin and don’t feel bad about it.
Move BEFORE baby comes
Sorry this man isn’t thinking about you and you you don’t just fall into peoples dms ! You and your baby deserve so much more xx
Quit being his girlfriend. He doesn’t believe you are anyways.
Better get birth control after the baby is born
We know what hes having for lunch!..there is nothing more to talk about, you already gave him another chance and he blew it. LEAVE his ass b4 he brings you home a disease.
Drop his ass like a hot potato. Cheaters don’t stop cheating.
Bin it. He’s done it twice now he obviously doesn’t care
Mine was messaging other girls, had secret snap stories , liking girls stuff on Insta and messaging them . No message was ever planned to meet up but that was enough for me to end it .
I liked one old friends pic on Facebook and he flipped his shit at me but then was doing that behind my back where that was on Facebook where everyone could see so I had nothing to hide …
honestly they don’t change !! They just find better ways to hide it !!!
You deserve so much better and there are decent men out there !!
Red 
, NARCISSIST & run from that as fast as possible
Things aren’t “good” if your boyfriend is talking to other chicks on dating apps - no less meeting up with them. This isn’t the first time he’s stubbed his toe either. He lacks integrity and character. Do you want your sons to grow up thinking it’s ok to treat people that way? Do you want your daughters to grow up and allow themselves to be treated this way? You’ve already given him one pass. You know what you need to do.
Y’all haven’t “worked through” anything. He somehow thinks that you’ve given him permission to do these things. I’d put his ass down the road so fast, he’d wonder if he ever lived here with me. Aren’t you worth more than keeping a cheating boyfriend around?
Well hes proved he cant be trusted so you either carry on knowing hes always on the hunt to cheat or leave before youve wasted good years of your life on him, you can still be civil for the babys sake, because hes not faithful to you dont mean he cant be a good dad
Your man’s a dirty snake. Leave his ass.
Girl throw him to the streets
The.minute Any man makes you doubt him he should be gone how are you still with him stop degrading yourselx woman and take charge of the situation plenty single mothers out there ots hard but everyone eventually gets through it don’t stay where you are nor wanted ans taken advantage of
Remove yourself from his life. You should not have to stop him from doing anything. He should not want to do it, its disrespectful.