Don’t feel bad happened to me too now going threw divorce
Young one - don’t confront him until you get all your ducks in a row. Keep the phone that’s broken - when you got things lined up (lawyer)- invite your friend over and him - confront them - tell them they deserve each other and kick him out. Do not take him back - he’s done it once - for a while, he will do it again.
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Go to her house and catch them.
Hide the broken phone too and keep it
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Change the locks and let her have him. Go find someone worthy of you.
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Pack a bag and go to a safe place, mums or siblings or a close friends. Stay there for a couple days and prepare yourself for what you wanna do.
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Play it cool act like you don’t know anything and get some money saved up and plot ur way out of that marriage. Surprise his ass with a divorce. Document EVERYTHING!!! Nothing else to say.
Pack his stuff put it on her doorstep, later bo!
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First and foremost, call you a lawyer. Change the locks on all of your doors. Pack all of his stuff up, and drop them bags off in her yard. Then get the video recording, honk until they come out and then yell Too-da-loo MF driving away like Mr chow does in the hangover.
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While he’s out I’d a pack a few bags and drain a few accounts. After sending all screen shots to my phone I’d leave the phone on his pillow and walk out.
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Don’t show your hand just yet
Gather ALL your evidence first - screenshots etc
And leave
He clearly doesn’t have respect for you & doesn’t care who he hurts
Is it worth it? No
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Take screenshots and send them all to your phone… then start printing and get them all to a lawyer!! File for full custody if you have children and change your locks. Ask family to come stay with you to help you keep yourself together if you need it.
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Don’t confront yet, gather all the evidence you can, make your exit strategy, get your finances in order then talk to a lawyer and ruin him financially in every way you legally can
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Boyyyy, both them mfs would be dead lmao. Nah, I’d pack his shit & let him move in with her lmao.
My Ouija board told me, you should of seen the colour leave his body:bangbang:
Pack alll of his shit into boxes, put them out on the street or deliver them to her house, change the locks and pop open a bottle of wine sis. This road is going to be rough and horrible, you’re going to cry, stream and yell. But you WILL get over this. Ditch both of those no bodies and take care of yourself. File for that divorce.
Stay married forever and make his life hell in thousands of teeny tiny ways “by accident” to just torture him on a daily basis. Holes in his socks, feed him spoiled food, bleaching agents in shampoo, you go crazy girl. He can’t even accuse you of getting revenge if he thinks you don’t know, that’s the best part!!
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I’m gonna be as real with you as possible…the fact is you now know the truth…what are YOU gonna do? Are you willing to stay after now knowing? This is a test of your value. What are you worth to YOU? Your husband and your friend have no regards for you so what are you worth to them? Now if you know there is no coming back from this I would definitely hide your hand and never let him see it coming. You’re married so there is much more legal aspects at play so changing the locks would be elementary. These two have had yrs to plan and execute when necessary…play it smart.
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Myself, I’m going to that house, then I’m going all up in that house, maybe with Louisville slugger. It OVER. They about to have a bad day !!!
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Now you know what kind of people they are unfortunately. But you deserve better!
Put his stuff on the porch and change the locks 
no but fr. Just keep the proof and contact a lawyer asap
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Call a lawyer I hope u did that, it’s important to have that head start
empty bank accounts first then do what you choose legally
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Blast them on social media and pack all his stuff and leave!
So sad my friend is going through this very thing now and she’s just pissed.
Start watching forensic files, the first 48, cold case files…………
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Fill out divorce paperwork to your standards and then bring it to him to sign. Don’t freak out on him just be done. Come out of left field prepared with a plan and paperwork.
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Well, I went and got my truck that he drove to chick’s house and left his a$$ there. By the time he found someone to go get him and bring him home all his belongings were packed in his vehicle (that was broke down on side of street in front of our house) and he had no keys to the house or my vehicle and was told if he tried to get in that he would be charged with breaking and entering because we didn’t have a lease (rental house) and landlord already knew he no longer lived there. Was told in front of police officer he had 10 days to remove his vehicle from my house or it would be towed at his expense. So, if I were you I’d pack his sh!t and dump it off where he is because she isn’t your friend and they deserve each other. Two lowlife POS’
Keep phone for evidence at your moms house so he can’t find it and pack his shit and leave it at her house lol
Get your money out of then bank then pull up with his shit in bags.
Say nothing. Pretend you know nothing. Collect evidence so he can’t lie or cover his tracks. Email things to your own phone and delete the evidence that you ever did. And once you’ve done that contact a lawyer and start getting the ball rolling. Chances are if you confront him right now he will lie anyways.
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Take screen shots of it all and see a solicitor x
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I have no good advice because I’m petty, and we all would be sitting in jail or in the back of a ambulance
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Ummm DIVORCE IS THAT EVEN A QUESTION!!! I would however go there and knock on the door get a pic and leave. Just to add to the evidence of adultery for the judge
Take screenshots incase he can lock phone
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1.change your locks
2. Act like he don’t exist
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Go clean the toilet with his tooth brush 
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Pack and his shit and take them to her house and tell him you’re divorcing him you’ve got all the evidence you need.
Throw all of his stff outside and get new lochs!!
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Go to that house get them on video together for court. Get a pi if you can… Don’t do anything irrational until after court … start building your case and call a lawyer . I may suggest if you can move all shared money into a different bank account. Get prepared and fight back smart!
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Nice friend too. I’m so sorry. Keep the evidence, Chang the locks, withdraw money and stash the cash. Pack his bags and call a lawyer. Start charging nice things for yourself. He will be stuck with at least half of that bill. They both are lower than pond scum!
Heat of the moment irrational me: walk up on there and smash the windows out of everything including them!
Rational me, keep your proof quiet see a lawyer and have him served. Play your hand in court without letting him know.
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Go around and bring his clothes in a bin bag leave outside door and knock than say your welcome to him
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Screen shot those messages and hide that other phone it’s your evidence
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I would pack his stuff, drive it to her house and drop it off 
then contact a divorce attorney
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And just know this might not be the first time he cheated and it definitely won’t be the last. So sorry.
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Act like you know nothing. Take pics of all messages. Put them in your hidden folder. Go to a lawyer and find out your rights as to what is yours. Move to strike.
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If he did it once he’ll do it again !!!
Are you willing to accept that ?
After taking his clothes to your friends house, see a lawyer.
Pack a bag of his stuff and go drop it off to him if he’s so comfortable being with her then let him stay there!
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Empty bank FIRST!!! change the locks and call your “friend” and tell her she can keep him!
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Poke him in the butt cheek with a thumbtack while he’s asleep for starters… record it for us
Pretend like you don’t know then at family dinner invite her over and ask how she’s enjoying your husband
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Send all the screenshots to your email showing the number that is receiving the texts. Find a good lawyer and get the divorce paperwork going. Get your Financials in order and get ready to move forward without looking back. They have obviously been playing you for years so play harder. There is no worse betrayal from a “friend” than this. With friends like that who needs enemies???
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I’d pack his clothes and leave them outside on the lawn
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Empty the bank account first!
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Drain the bank account next pay day, pack your things and leave🤷♀️
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Print out all the screenshots and leave them taped to the door for when he comes home.
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Screen shot and take pictures. Personally I would show up.
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I’d plan long term. Not let on that I know then devise a thought out plan to teach in a lesson. Then bye-bye
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Keep the texts messages, pack his clothing in a trash bag, take them to him and then get a lawyer! Take no prisoners!!
Just leave him and never look back
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Wtffffff! Thered be no talking here! Straight ass whoopin! I don’t care what y’all say I’m whoopin an ass!
Don’t ask me you’ll end up in jail lol
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Drop all his shit on her lawn and call it a day. Change the locks and file for divorce.
Depends on what state you’re in. You can take all the money but some states will make you give him back his half. Also are there children involved?
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THESE LADIES ARE TOO NICE!!! TAKE ALL HIS SHIT THROW IT IN A PILE AND BURN THE SHIT OUT OF THEM!!! OK!!! and THEN DIVORCE HIS ASS! You have proof!!!Don’t come at me ok about my comment people! She asked and I answered!!!
BANK ACCOUNT HIT IT HARD !!!
Lawyer !!!
Restraining order SO you don’t kill them and end up in prison
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After going through similar things, I can honestly say PROOF is everything in court. Make sure you have what you need. You can either toss him out, or fake like nothing is wrong. Act sick if he tries to kiss you or anything. When he’s not home or what not, go to a lawyer. Get your case ready and built up, then serve him with papers. If you can show enough proof you can hang him on cheating and even get paid alimony. You got this girl! Stay strong. Don’t let your emotions cloud your judgement. Trust me, I did and it but me in the butt harshly.
Get you a lawyer and get everything, I would go after her to in court. I have no sympathy for anyone that cheats especially her being a friend of yours, BUT get everything in order first all the text messages all the proof you have and look at all of the finances
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I would go right over there with pizza & pop with some music! It’s time for a party. If you’re cool with his family bring them too. The more the merrier.
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I will be on my way to her house with his stuff and file for a divorce first thing in the morning tomorrow
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You get yourself together, make a plan and leave! NO ONE deserves that
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First off go withdraw ALL money out your joint bank account, if you share one. Next, change the locks on your house. Then toss all his 
in the yard.
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Confront them tell them they are selfish, you want a divorce and you keep everything!
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Play it confident yes it hurt but don’t even let him try to play you anymore. Clean his stuff out and leave it outside her house and take half the bank money and get a lawyer but record all the messages and his location.
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Go drop all his shit in front of her front door.
Take pictures of all the evidence before you do anything or he has the chance to delete it
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Save everything, drain everything. Tell no one of anything. Go to the best lawyer you can and take him for all he’s worth. Kids involved make sure to get an order to keep any of his new women away from them, make visitation supervised.
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Start packing up yours or his stuff
Pack him and bag and drop it off. Tell her he’s her problem now. Sorry you have to deal with this but it’s better to find out then to never know.
Ok ok. Let me tell you what I did. Do you have a family pet ? If so simply put the pet in his vehicle. He’s got to bring it home. Then let the questions fly ! But if you do go this route… let us know.
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Drive to her house and wait outside then call her and be like “hey let’s go do something….I’ll be there in a sec” my husbands suggestion
Pack some of his shit drop it off. Change locks, tell him he can’t contact you unless he full out 100% admit to his cheating and plan to separate. I’m not married but been in a relationship after guy cheated on me with my friend. Both were done.
leave him! start your life again. There is no rain forever, the sun comes. Think about you first, he is a loser, you are much more tha this… Its gonna get worst if u accept this is ur life forever! move on girl! its gonna get better! he is a pig cheater! ewww
Copy every thing iff the phone…before you let him know you know. Ask your friend to lunch ask how shes doing , who’s she seeing. Then let her know you know and walk away.
Same with him. Hold your head high…oh and smile
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Drop his essential stuff at her house and toodles!!! I’d let them have eachother. Easier said than done, I know. Been there, done that, and it won’t change. You could bring up counseling if you think this is something you could work through. Best of luck. Never a situation anyone wants to be in. Hugs 
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Keep the phone and all the messeges on it and go streight to divorce lawyer and show him the phone messeges as proof …he will guide you from there…good luck hun…hugs
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Deep breaths change the locks
Call
An attorney and send all the texts to a private email.
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Talk to a lawyer and see if you can sue her for “alienation of affection”. You know he’s spent money on her so why not get some of it back. Just make sure you keep all the proof you have…
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Screenshot all the shit as evidence for when you divorce him 
divorce without hesitation
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Keep whatever you plan to yourself!! I’m so sorry this I like the ultimate betrayal. I’m upset for you…I wouldn’t let them know you know until you have secured yourself. That part will be hard, bc if your like me, my face expression gives away how I’m feeling.
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Get your other friends together (sorry some of them may have known about it) tell them what has happened and get ALLLLLLLLLL his sh*t together, knock on her slutty arse door and give his belongings to her. Let her have his hoe ass
She’s not your friend.
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Copy every single text message and email message you can get out that phone and then if you can do it I don’t say nothing
Get all your ducks in a row though
but if you’re quick tempered like me after you save everything out of his phone Id pull the fuck up
But that’s only if you bout that life because number one if you pull up at somebody’s house you never know what they gonna come out with
OK edit it to add let me tell you the responsible thing keep all the messages all the emails and if you can call somebody right now to change your locks or go get one of those girlfriend door lock jams and definitely protect yourself and protect your assets
Id take my name off all utilities then say you are paying the bills but dont right before you leave. Let him have fun with that credit hit and extra fees AFTER the bank account is drained. Also hire a lawyer and keep all your evidence and have a plan to either go somewhere else before you let him know anything is up. Play it smart hit him hard. File for alimony.
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Sleep wid his bestfriend pay bk better
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I would hide his phones and make him squirm and then pack my things and leave his phones out with the texts set as wallpaper
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