You don’t have a husband. You have a roommate.
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My EX used to do this. One of the Reasons he’s gone
Nit picky you are and control freak.
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Yes and no depends on the reason
Do the same to him and see how he likes it.
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Nope. Alone time is a MUST.
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Yeah…something fishy going on…
Not answering my calls would annoy me, but my house isn’t a prison and my husband isn’t my child so he can leave the house whenever he pleases.
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My husband NEVER leaves the house without letting me know. He will wake me up, kiss me, and than leave the house. My husband always answers when I call him. If I called him and he didn’t answer than I would be alarmed.
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Yes she should be upset. It’s just plain common courtesy. Especially with kids in the house. Tell someone you are leaving. Say bye.
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Save the arguments and chip him so he can be tracked everywhere he goes…
Why are you suspicious? Why don’t you trust him?
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Depends, were you arguing before he left? If so no I wouldn’t be as he’s probably trying to cook off. But when if he just left I wouldn’t be mad, he’s a grown man after all.
Stacey Bullock sounds like jak and your answer is no 
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Yes thts disrespectful.
Um, yeah. It’s common courtesy to let your spouse know that you are leaving the house and when you think you may be back. Not answering calls on top of that would have me calling the cops and worried that something bad happened.
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I would be upset. I mean it depends on the context of why he left and didn’t say where he was going and wouldn’t answer the phone. If the two of you were arguing/fighting, and he walked out and wouldn’t answer the phone, it would make a little more sense than if you were sitting on the couch watching TV and he just got up and walked out and wouldn’t answer the phone. Being married is about mutual communication and mutual respect. So even if you two were fighting when he did it, he could have at least said something along the lines of “I need some space right now, I’m going for a drive.” Early on in my marriage my husband and I were having a small argument and he just grabbed his keys, kissed me and walked out the door without saying a word. While he was gone, I left and took the kids to get something to eat. He got home before we did and was worried. When i came back, we sat down and talked and I explained how that made me feel. He’s never done it again.
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I would be extremely pissed! Just have mutual respect for each other and let each other know. I would do the same thing to him. Not say a word, just get up and leave and not answer any of his calls. And if you have kids, let him deal with them so he knows exactly how you feel. A marriage is supposed to be a partnership not a half way house.
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Not saying it’s like this but I Know what my ex husband was doing when he did this! I asked him to go the grocery store and maybe grab a bite to eat - spend time together. He said he was too “tired” turned around to go grab something from the house and suddenly he is - gone! Tried to call a dozen times and went to voicemail,
Someone was sending it to voicemail. 
Idk I’m all about mutual respect. I feel like he knew if he didn’t say anything at all then he didn’t “lie” about where he was going. To me it’s just weird! I guess when I was in a relationship I always at least told the person where I was going. Not ask but let them know
I would change the locks
Depends if your tracking him and on his case everytime he’s not in your eye site. Probably teaching you a lesson. If its rare accurance could be planing surprise
Change the locks & see if he gets upset 
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Hell yes, you have every right to be upset. That’s shady AF.
No I’m not his mother tf … he can do that if he wants to but he never leaves the house without saying bye I never have to ask where he is going he freely says hey I’m going XYZ …
I wouldn’t be upset at the action I’d be upset at the lack of communication and I’d wonder why he did it because that’s not how our marriage works
My husband did this allot and we didn’t fight or even argue. He would just say he was going over to his friend’s place. They met in a tavern. He never was home that day normally a day or 2 later. In the meantime I was preparing to leave with our son. Hard to make a marriage work when he just leaves and no word to you plus not answering his cell phone. My marriage didn’t make it but hopefully yours will. Depends on how much you can let things slide. This has nothing to do with being the mother; it is called respect.
Mine hubby would never do that any more then me to him
And we’ve been married 53 yrs
Umm maybe he was doing something to surprise you and didn’t want you getting nosey … Mothers day is around tge corner
YES. Sure, he’s his own person and is allowed to do what he wants but it’s called respect. Not telling you where he’s going and avoiding your calls is disrespectful and sneaky. I’d be mad lol
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Everything you choose to be upset about is a decision to make yourself suffer. Nitpicking your way through life is a dark path to bitterness and resentment. You trusted him enough to marry him and create a life together, why not wait until he’s given you a reason not to trust him.
If there’s more to the story, then go with your gut.
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I’d be mad, it’s not about being his mommy it’s about respect.
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If he ignored my calls that would annoy me.
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Uh yeah! How is that a question?
Sometimes on his day off mine will get up before dawn and leave without telling me where he’s going, he’ll be gone all day and will not answer his phone or answer messages, when he gets home he is so tired he will go straight to sleep…he’s a surfer, this happens when the waves are good, lol.
Yes obviously, straight up disrespectful
It depends on how you do it. Personally, my partner is VERY considerate of my feelings and how I would feel if he did something that HE wouldn’t like if I did. So if he left without telling you (and the normal thing you both do is tell each other) and then proceeded to ignore your calls (given he answers your calls all the time) then yes I would very mad.
Question is, (if he’s home) when you told him about it, did he become defensive? Acted like he just didn’t think it was a big deal? Or apologetic? If he became defensive, you MIGHT have a few problem on your hands because he obviously doesn’t want you knowing where he was and he will defend the actions.
Now if it is just to go to like the grocery store, then honestly, yeah be upset, I probably would be but in the end, he didn’t do anything badz
You sound a little needy.
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sometimes people just need a little space
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No, he’s a grown man. He can go where he pleases.
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Yes. I wouldn’t want anything bad happening and me finding out in an embarrassing manner.
Id be more upset that he wouldnt answer my phone calls then if he were to just up and leave and call and be lke hey babe i had to go somewhere real quick ill be back after a bit. Def suspicious if a man leaves and dodges calls/ messages in my opinion
Sometimes men want to feel like they can be independent like a child would do. Sometimes they cheat. I wouldn’t make a huge deal out of it but I would let him know it worries me if he doesn’t answer his phone or mention where he’s going. If it becomes a habit-it’s time for an investigation. The truth is communication is one of the mainstays of a relationship and if he doesn’t understand the importance of something so simple it may be an issue.
I’d be pissed he didn’t kiss me goodbye! I don’t care if hes going to be gone.for 5 minutes or 5 hours not leaving without my kiss. . . . Wont sleep without my kiss goodnight either 
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It depends in the circumstances. My husband has left the house without telling me to go to the neighborhood store. He does not go far or stay long and Sometimes he forgets his phone or he leaves it in the car while he runs in the store. You must have trust issues. Is cheating an issue in your relationship. I have also left the house without telling him to run to the store and there times he did not even know it. He was to off into his Golf show. Plus 41 years of marriage we pretty must know each other and trust it other
Depends on the situation. If it’s not in his nature to just up and leave, then yes I would worry and be upset, especially if he isn’t answering your calls and you have no possible idea where he could be. Has he been acting weird, different? If he seems distant from you and has an attitude, doesn’t tune in, etc… he could possibly be doing stuff he shouldn’t, but then again so could men who appear to be happy and loving🤷🏽♀️
I would be upset myself, just not as upset as I used to be.
100 percent…you have the right to ask and be answered. Do you leave and not tell or respond to him? How would he react?
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No because I’m not his keeper. 
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Yeah, I’d pissed. Write a note, text, something. If theres an emergency how would he know if he won’t answer
It pisses me off too. Do the same and see how he feels🤷🏻♀️
Definitely a problem.