Be suspicious, BE VERY SUSPICIOUS 
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Maybe using it to clean his ears 
out
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Clearly she knows if it is hers or not. She told us it is not hers. If it were me, I would put it somewhere he would be sure to see it and take a pic. If it “disappears” you have your answer.
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I found one in the bathroom the other day and there’s only my son and I who live here He wouldn’t need it cos his hair really short unless he uses it for his beard 
Big Don’t say anything. Just look for other signs. Men aren’t that good at hiding.
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I think you already know the answer
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Well, do you live alone?
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So ask him where it came from. I don’t get the whole put it where he can find it thing. Take it to him and say this isn’t mine where’d it come from? Be up front. There could be many explanations but if you catch him off guard you’ll be able to catch him in a lie or trying to come up with one in the moment. The whole set up thing is just childish to me and gives him time to think if he did do something
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Don’t beat around the bush. Just ask him about it.
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Oh DAMN like a hair Bobby pin like for girls hair…DAMN…this is going to get ugly, he will say anything so be prepared, and when you find the truth give yourself time to love yourself.
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Confront him. Clearly it isn’t yours so how did it get there?
His reaction will tell you more than he will.
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Dont say anything and be ready to look for more signs… If you tell him… Hes just going to lie to you anyways…
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I wish she would comment to our replies. Maybe she could provide some more details?
Ask him for her number so you can return it!
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He bought it to clean he’s ears dont worry
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Have you had company in your house in the last couple months this?
1 random Bobby pin found, shouldn’t be a red flag for a significant other doing something on the sly.
Unless you have suspected they have been doing something way before finding a Bobby pin.
Just a thought. Not enough info to really speculate and get the fbi (best friend involved to solve the mystery)
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Maybe he was just cleaning his ears!!
There’s not enough information here to help. We could jump to tons of conclusions, but that’s about it.
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These days even boys wear them.
Does any of his friends could look like they would wear bobby pin?
Just ask him,see his reaction, response. U know him, I assume very well.
Or if u don’t want ask him,check his phone,for something unusual.
Set up a camera for the next time u leave a couple days
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I’d be concerned if it was in my bed. Otherwise it’s a bobby pin extremely common many people use them
My hubby found one I thought nothing of it
If there is no possible way it came from your home, then just calmly ask him did he have fun while you were gone, did he invite anyone over, or whatever. See what he says. If he lies, which im sure if he’s cheating he will definitely do. Just go with it, either set up a camera to catch him, or set the Bobby pin on his phone for him to see and make sure you catch his reaction.
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Ask him how he parts his hair and then put it in.
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Well first do you live alone, or with someone, second do you have kids? Sorry but even animals, I’ve had my old ones carry some weird stuff in
My brother found one of my Bobby pins in his car, kept fiddling with it absentmindedly… carried it with him into his house and his GF lost her shit…. Until she realized it was innocent and harmless. Not everything is malicious 
(coming from a chick with a Criminology & psychology degree and naturally suspicious)
Try asking if it’s really bothering you?
Be upfront about it and prepare yourself to kick his ass to the curb.
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Ask him who lost their Bobby pin? If he says he don’t know ask for his phone if he says no kick him out
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A Bobby pin? Girl, unless you know something you are not telling us!.
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Put it in ur hair and call it a day!
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Does he have guy friends with long hair? Or maybe a family member visited? Ask if there was any company and if he says no then ask where it came from?!!!
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Cleary she already knows what happened while she was gone.
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It could have come from one of your friends you had over while you were home. I know I have a lot of hair and they have popped out before.
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Trust the gut honey!! It never lies…
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Would you rather a Earring,Condom,Hair,Thongs?
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Just a thought…… Bobby pins can scrape bowls (no, not the ones you eat from haha). If he smokes then I’d say that’s what that is.
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Dont jump to conclusions…it could be a burglar with a bee hive hair do…
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Hand it to him and watch
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Don’t ignore your instincts… we always know the truth but we want to believe the lie because it hurts less.
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Ask him a straight away to hes face when you are next with him…you know him enough to know if he lies or not.
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Do people even wear those anymore? I haven’t seen a bobby pin in years
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Just maybe he stepped on it, while out & about, and tracked it into the house, by way of his shoe. I doubt it though lol… I’d poke tf outta him with it🤗
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Clearly you already suspect an issue. This is not the first time he’s done this. My advice is get out of there, leave. It’s not withe the fight. Let him go cheat on someone else. You’re better than that. Better than he is. Go.
"Off with his head!!!"
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If he smokes he might have been using it to clean out his bowl, my boyfriend steals mine to do just that lol. But if your gut is telling you something else then confront him about it.
You know what that means…
First take half the money in all of the bank accounts and put it in your name only. Any valuable items that you wish to keep, put them into storage or a safe deposit box. Once that is done, then confront him. Be smart about this. You already know the answer. Protect your interests and then go on the attack.
Hand it to him & his reaction will say it all!
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Who uses bobby pins? Hand it to him & watch the reaction. Then, kick him to the curb!
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Flip the fuck out 
So…have you never had company over that it could be from…is the only possibility someone when u were gone? Does he have a mom? A sister? Friends?
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Explore other possibilities before jumping to the worst conclusion. Has anything else in the past ever led you to believe he might be cheating? Like someone else said, what about guests you guys have had or a family member of his?
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Is the lounge your bedroom? I would be suspicious at the very least.
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Don’t say anything and don’t act any different then how you usually are…this is what you do,set up a hidden camera and you’ll find out that way because there’s no way in this life time your partner is gonna admit having anyone over bottom line
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No need to ask him, he will deny everything or also say Thought was yours. So better search for yourself to know who is her, then go a lawyer with prove
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…… what if he uses it to dig in his ears.
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He could have a male friend with long hair x
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If you’re asking then you already know the answer, sadly it’s true… I’m sorry.
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One time I found a woman’s hair tie thing after I came home from being gone for weeks. I was furious. Then I found out it’s actually something that strapped onto his military boots 
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clean his ears out with it lol then pull them an ask “who tf bobby pins is this!?”
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Who uses bobby pins?
Could it have come back with you from wherever you were ? Or on the sole of yurt shoe x
It could easily been stuck on bottom of a shoe n brought in from anywhere? Stuck to bottom of purse from restaurant boot sliding across? Stuck on pants or jacket laid down on someplace ? I’d not get all worried unless you suspect sneaky things going on???
Layla Bullen 
I would start wearing it when they notice I would say oh I found it on the floor when I got back 
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My advice is don’t jump to conclusions. More than one marriage has been ruined by accusations & mistrust. Watch & listen. The truth will reveal itself. If by some chance he did do something wrong he will be comfortable enough to do it again OR maybe he didn’t do anything. Only time will tell. Everything done in the dark comes to light. Good Luck.
Assume the worst & hope for the best. Did he maybe have friends over? Did you maybe have friends over & one maybe dropped a bobby pin and it just got moved around while you guys walk around the house. It could be so many things.
These comments are killing me
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Did I miss something? The writer didn’t even attempt they lived with someone.
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Been there done that…record everything can’t trust people.
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Relationships and marriages can bring out the detective in you🤣
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We are going to need an update on this one
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Find a new roomate 
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Don’t jump to conclusions. Just ask and see what happens.
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Hire a PI. Swab for dna😣
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Follow your instincts. If it’s not yours then where did it come from?
Someone needs to talk.
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Bobby pins can be stuck in cracks, get knocked out sweep around not seen and then get kick or sweep out in the open.
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Cams! Cams! Cams! Just got mom some.
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Blink! She can mount or stash in the plants like when my nephew shows up when she’s down in Foxwoods goes right to her phone. We ordered the interior ones and she can place one in picture window to see driveway and another at end of the hall. And the other where ever she decides….
Affordable too.
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Go away for another two days and install a hidden camera
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Runaway Runaway hahaha
I would come in the house with 300 of the same Bobby pins all over my head and see what he says. I’m petty.
Are you such an immaculate housekeeper that it couldnt have been there since your last social gathering?
A Bobby pin? lol we use Bobby pins to clean our ears. 
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Cheating… definitely cheating. 
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Could have been tracked in on something. Maybe look for other clues ?
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Hmmmm what else is different
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Casual ask questions about what he did while you’re gone. Who was there or where he went. If nothing adds up you’ll know. I have lots of friends over that leave things behind but if you guys don’t have friends with girlfriends I would wonder too
Could have always been there from before. Just never noticed
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Get a baggy, send it to the police for DNA
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Bobby pin? How many?
Morgan Greenwell 
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Buy a blacklight and check for semen in unusual places😬
Oh no not a Bobby pin
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Did he have a male friend over that is married?
Listen… I’m not saying you’re not onto something but i can’t tell you how many bobby pins i’ve found laying around my house. I don’t know how to determine wether they’re mine or not tho. I think they all pretty much look the same 
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Poke him in the eye with it
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I find Bobby pins where I don’t even walk in like hey my Bobby pin 
Do you have a cat flap and pets that go in and out? They might have dragged their gift inside.
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Test it for DNA evidence.
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