My mother in law keeps posting photos of my husband and his ex: Advice?

Tell her is being an ass.

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Shes a narcissist. Let him handle her then both of you go grey rock.

Start liking the post

Ignore her. If you can !!!

Unfollow her problem solved .

I’d block her. Problem solved.

Unfollow the mil. Move on .

Unfriend her, you won’t see what she posts. Problem solved

Unfriend her she Toxic

Unfollow her and move on.

Mom know that’s wrong smh

Unfriend her ass and move on.

People who are hurting, hurt people!

I would block her posts

Post one of you and him on her page say hes with me now and finally happy

She should be ashamed of herself !!!
(The mil )

Agree! Just ignore it!

I Would Block Her Out Of My Life So Quick!!!:100::bangbang::person_tipping_hand:

Just tell her, he married you not her. And if she dosent like it tough shit. There’s a reason he is not with her and you make him happy. 38 years ago I went through the conversation with my father in law, and I told him he would be long and gone and I would still be married. It’s been 37 years and going on 38 this month I’m very happy and still going. Keep your head up and be happy.

It’s her page she can post what she likes.
If it upsets you so much then you can unfriend her.

Block her, she is mean

Block her and be happy

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Unfollow, block and ignore her.

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Block very easily done she’s very disrespectful

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Block her, not worth the stress.

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Block her or unfollow her

Ignore and keep your head up . Your husband loves and stands behind you and that is all that matters.

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FUCK HER! SORRY BUT A HUGE FUCK YOUR MIL! That is the most rudest shit she can do.

She’s being petty. Ignore her, block her… I’m sorry but I disagree with all of these people saying make posts about it. Just be the bigger person.

Block her period!! She’s trying to upset you, and it’s working.

Remove her from your social media. Who needs that in their life

Block and ignore. Online and offline.

I’d say…she ain’t right.

Pay her no mind. Let her be miserable

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Shes a spiteful b**** just block her . We havent talked to my husband sister in 4 years life is peaceful.

Ignore her she is only trying to get Under you skin Bragg on the pics if she thinks you don’t care she will stop she is being childish no one can play games with you unless you let them Life is to short laugh at her and go on being happy together

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She is only embarrassing herself I’m pretty sure that everyone who sees the things she posts knows that is his ex and that he is married to you and I’m pretty sure that they all think she is being petty and ridiculous I know it’s hard but don’t pay her any attention rather block her and leave her be she is toxic and you don’t need that in your life

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Block and delete best social media buttons out there!! She’s being petty just delete her!!

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Unfriend her on FB then you won’t have to see it. Or tell her to stop. Or just move on from it and don’t let her know it makes you mad. You choose

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It’s okay to cut out toxic family . If you’re toxic you’re toxic and I wouldn’t put up with it . Put her in her place . Tell her she can respect you and your husbands marriage or she can kick rocks and eat dirt . Period point blank .

Shes doing it to get response from u guys. Shes mad about something

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You cab snooze her for 30 days or just unfollow her on social media (stay friends but don’t see her posts)

Leave it. if you guys are good and she is not in the picture leave it be

Just leave it alone… she’s trying to stir up drama.

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Block her from social media that simple

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I would never speak to my MIL again if she did this.

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Block or unfollow her then you won’t have to see that nonsense.

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Block her and move on

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Just take it with a grain of salt & :heart: or :joy: the pic. If anything itll get under her skin too :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Snooze her - she’s not worth you losing peace. I love your husbands response - you are his princess. His mom sounds more like the evil stepmother (MIL)

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If they have kids together then it’s no big deal . If they don’t then yeah, weird. But you can’t control what other people do. You can only control yourself, so maybe unfriend her on fb

Seriously, don’t give her the attention she seeks.
Obviously she’s unhappy with her life choices and misery loves company.
Pray for her.

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Your attitude depends on how you respond :wink:

Id just comment under all of them with a current pic of you two and be like “XXX and his current girlfriend, don’t they look so happy, etc” I’m just a little petty. :joy::sob::joy: I see your passive aggressive behavior and I raise you slightly more aggressive passive aggressive behavior.

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Honestly if it’s all high school stuff - I’d leave it. Unfortunately there’s a lot of memories there that more then likely other girls will be apart of. But I do agree with others saying she’s doing it to get a rose outta you

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Started putting pictures of yiu guys together in the comments section too saying yes he was happy then, but happier now

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Let it go sounds like he loves you and in the end that’s what matters.

Forgive her she doesn’t know what she is doing. Don’t let the enemy steal your joy.

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:kissing_heart:
Just this emoji. Nothing else. It will confuse the absolute shit out of her and be funny AF

So many MIL are like this it drives me nuts. Waste of space, time and energy. Believe me been there done that. Best response is no response I’d delete her.

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She’s just being a petty little old woman. Find an embarrassing picture of her and post it saying she looks “So BeAuTiFuL!”

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Why don’t you just block her and save you le self the drama. If there is no relationship between you and her and from the look of of it not even your husband, block her ass. Just because they are family doesn’t mean you have to put up with their toxicity.

My ex father in law used to do this. Until I personally turned around and told him I will never be them, get over yourself, and walked away. My husband said “she’s right that’s my queen let’s all move on”.

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Either confront her a** and/or block her on social media. I mean you have the man and y’all are happy. :woman_shrugging:t4: I damn sure wouldn’t let some old bitty get up under my skin.

I’d be pretty ill too but I’ve found the unfollow button works wonders for my sanity.

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I can’t say this enough… it is OKAY to cut toxic people out of your life and that includes family. If you don’t want to do that then you’re going to have to not let her get under your skin. I would comment on the pictures about how handsome your hubby was then, love the image etc. Just to irritate her.

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Don’t give her the attention she’s looking for… it’s not worth your time.

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This lady sounds like shes got a screw loose. I wouldnt pay her much mind.

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My boyfriends whole family, talks shit about his ex then they call and talk to her. So idk what to tell you. People suck and are very disrespectful.

If it upsets you that much just block her and you won’t have to see it anymore

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Ignore her. She’s pushing yr buttons n acting like she’s in Middle School.

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My mother in law has pictures of my husbands ex but they have my bonus daughter in them and I would never feel any kinda way about that but my father in law has a picture of different ex of my husband’s hanging on his wall and it irks the fuck out of me for a whole lot of messy shit. I have nothing to do with his dad any more and he doesn’t either

My MIL wouldn’t ever do this. Thank god. But I’d be hella irritated so would my husband if it was the other way around. My husband would have already told his mom to take them down. But idk your whole situation but the past is the past and that’s where them pictures should be left. At least crop a chick out lmfao. (Im a pitty :scorpius:) but also not 1 to let someone disrespect me. If it bothers you speak up.

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It’s petty of her. Just unfollow or block her.

She is an asshole. That is messed up.

She is doing this for an REACTION…I would tell him just leave it alone…You have to NOT LET THIS BOTHER YOU…If hubby and mom don’t have a good relationship how can you have a good one with her?

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No, you’re not overreacting. She’s on to something and is probably trying to hurt him for some reason. She knows that she can cause a fight because you will eventually get ticked off about it. I would do reverse psychology on her. I would love those pics and put nice comments on them. Give her a taste of her medicine. It’ll piss her off more.

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Just tell her you’re glad he was happy then, and your even happier to be who he chooses now to be fulfilling his life today, with happiness.

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Ha. I’d tag this crazy in every God awful pic I could find of her…wrinkled mess…double chin…Oprah arms…any of it and make sure to note it too. Fight fire with fire. Idk that blocking her would change what she’s doing. Some people need to be put in their place.

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She’s being spiteful. Maybe ask the other girl to ask her to stop posting pictures

Find one of her and her ex :joy:

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Stay off Facebook. Won’t see what she is posting or just block her.

Your not overreacting.

Since your husband says he is willing to address the issue with her then let him. If the behavior continues after that then block/unfriend her.

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I’d just remove her off your social media and just ignore her like she does you. Then you can’t be bothered by her pettiness. Which will probably piss her off even more.

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That’s freaking rude… I’d at the very least ask him to remove the tags of him in those posts/pics… If it were me personally I’d unfriend her…

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this predates social media but my grandmother kept all the photos of her daughter and then son in law on her walls and when she left him and remarried grandma refused to remove the memories of what was it and was hilarious though we never called the new one uncle or stopped calling the old one uncle I guess grandma left quite the impression on us grandkids :joy::joy::joy:

My grandma was asked why she didn’t and she said he was always going to be family as he was the father of the shared child so she wasn’t budging. There was some other “skeletons” that no one wanted to speak of but her reason was in the end legit. When that grandson walked in he should still see “his” detached family photos.

So, I’d definitely have the husband ask her why she’s doing it if possible otherwise I’d be quite petty and just post a photo of you and husband daily saying the same “all those toads led him right to me” :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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How about just “unfollow” her on social media… not unfriend or block. That way you don’t see the things that she may post. Your husband is just that… YOUR husband, and he isn’t posting these things. Ignore and enjoy your family.

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Block her so you don’t see it. What a horrible woman

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I’d just make a posting stating that what she is doing is childish and that is if how she thinks she is going to work out her problems with her son, she’s going about it in the wrong way. And that you and her son are secure enough in your marriage to just find it pretty desperate and foolish of her to think that is going to help work things out. Get your point accross and do it in such a way that you are not necessarily attacking her, but letting people know what she is up to. Just a suggestion. Good luck. :two_hearts:

Block her. Out of sight, out of mind.

That’s rude and disrespectful…

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Be the bigger, better person and just ignore her, you have your husband! :wink:

No your not over reacting!! This needs to be addressed!! She needs to post pics of him alone, NOT with exes. Seems like she dont like you at all and she definitely has NO respect, for you!!

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Post pictures of you and your husband and tag her in them.

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Report her posts of the pictures as bullying. Fb will take them down eventually. And fb will not notify her it’s you. :sweat_smile: AND post even more pictures of you and YOUR husband.

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Either let your hubby handle it like he offered, or block her and ignore her pettiness all together

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Your mother in law is a total bitch ! Sorry- I’d sit her down & have it out with her- in front of hubby!

That is very rude and childish of her. I honestly would comment on her post with pictures of your husband and you and say" and he looks even happier with his wife" lol

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You’re not overreacting. That’s disrespectful.

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